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flowergirl8




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Oct 06 2021, 9:22 pm
What does tour husband do for work?
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amother
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Post Wed, Oct 06 2021, 9:35 pm
amother [ Dill ] wrote:
do you live someplace with high tuition? Do you have big kids as well or only little kids? just wondering how long you've had this lifestyle for. It's different for someone who's been married 5 years to say saving isn't a priority and someone who is close to marrying off kids...
are you nervous about getting used a certain standard of living and not being able to handle it if you can't afford it?


Yes, we live somewhere with high tuition costs. Our kids are still young - in school but not close to getting married. We do have investments/savings that we don’t touch, and we have real estate and businesses BH so I’m not concerned about affording things in the future and I also very much trust in HaShem. We believe in enjoying the life HaShem gave us and know He has all the money in the world!
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amother
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Post Wed, Oct 06 2021, 9:36 pm
imagirl wrote:
What does tour husband do for work?


Owns a business plus real estate
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amother
Dill


 

Post Wed, Oct 06 2021, 10:03 pm
do you have friends who are also SAHM with fth?

do you make your children do any chores?

does the help watch your kids? cook? errands?...
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amother
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Post Wed, Oct 06 2021, 10:33 pm
amother [ Dill ] wrote:
do you have friends who are also SAHM with fth?

do you make your children do any chores?

does the help watch your kids? cook? errands?...


Some friends like me but not many.
Children don’t do specific chores but they clean up after themselves.
My help does watch my kids when I need, prep dinners, lunch for my kids, and errands.
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sarahph1




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 12:02 am
How much do you pay your help
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amother
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Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 1:26 am
Ca you please tell your help to stop talking to mine on the phone ALL day?!
I’m seriously loosing it.
Wanna do lunch?

Fellow mom that also does “ nothing” all day
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amother
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Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 10:35 am
sarahph1 wrote:
How much do you pay your help


A lot Surprised
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amother
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Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 10:36 am
amother [ Plum ] wrote:
Ca you please tell your help to stop talking to mine on the phone ALL day?!
I’m seriously loosing it.
Wanna do lunch?

Fellow mom that also does “ nothing” all day


Lol yes to lunch!!! But no phones here!!!
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amother
Dahlia


 

Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 11:50 am
amother [ OP ] wrote:
1.5 lol. A baby and one in playgroup.


When they all are in school will you still have full time help?
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amother
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Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 12:06 pm
amother [ Dahlia ] wrote:
When they all are in school will you still have full time help?


Yes. I like having someone manage my household
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amother
Dill


 

Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 12:07 pm
do you have a very large house?

do you host a lot?

what hours do you consider "full time"

does your help come with you like on vacation or to events....

did your mother and/or mother in law also have full time help?
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amother
Dill


 

Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 12:14 pm
how long have you had the same lady?
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amother
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Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 1:04 pm
amother [ Dill ] wrote:
do you have a very large house?

do you host a lot?

what hours do you consider "full time"

does your help come with you like on vacation or to events....

did your mother and/or mother in law also have full time help?


I have a large house. We host a lot. We do bring our help along with us when we travel and to events. My mother did also have full-time help.

Oh and hours are 9:00 am - 9:00 pm
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amother
Dill


 

Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 1:07 pm
got it. that makes sense.
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amother
Dahlia


 

Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 1:31 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
I have a large house. We host a lot. We do bring our help along with us when we travel and to events. My mother did also have full-time help.

Oh and hours are 9:00 am - 9:00 pm


Is she live in? How much do you pay?
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amother
DarkViolet


 

Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 6:54 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
I have a large house. We host a lot. We do bring our help along with us when we travel and to events. My mother did also have full-time help.

Oh and hours are 9:00 am - 9:00 pm


Do you have any leads where I can find FTH? Desperately looking
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amother
Dahlia


 

Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 6:58 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
Yes. I like having someone manage my household


What will you do then? Volunteer work, go to the gym?
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Smile1234




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 8:31 pm
What does your help’s “seder hayom” look like?
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Revafe




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Oct 07 2021, 9:19 pm
Do u feel the need to keep doing stuff so u have what to answer when ppls ask what you did today?
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