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amother
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 Tue, Oct 19 2021, 9:54 am
| amother [ Smokey ] wrote: | | You shouldn't tell him to tell on students fighting. He should walk away. |
I told him only if someone is going to get hurt.
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amother
Smokey
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Tue, Oct 19 2021, 10:01 am
| amother [ OP ] wrote: | | Thank you!!!!!! I did speak to the teacher. Why are people looking into it more than it is?? This is how we learn. |
People don't know your specific situation so they can use only their own children and lives for context. I wouldn't become concerned but others feel differently. You don't have to take all advice.
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amother
Smokey
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Tue, Oct 19 2021, 10:02 am
| amother [ OP ] wrote: | | I told him only if someone is going to get hurt. |
I disagree. I think you should ask someone experienced. Most boys are not going to hurt other boys even when physically violent. Telling on other boys creates social issues and life issues.
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amother
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Tue, Oct 19 2021, 10:07 am
You say you want him to ‘keep it up  ’
That’s not something I want for my child.
I want happiness, self awareness, healthy boundaries, inner peace and resilience for my child.
I don’t want a feeling of needing to be good, trying to be tzaddik… it stems from not feeling ‘good enough’.
Are you happy with the values you promote?
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Blessing1
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Tue, Oct 19 2021, 10:14 am
| amother [ OP ] wrote: | | I told him only if someone is going to get hurt. |
He shouldn't get involved or tell on other boys, it's not his job. He'll become known as the class tattle and he might get mocked or bullied for it. If there's something really serious going on between boys in the class that doesn't involve him, he can always tell you instead of the Rebbi.
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