Ben and batsheva divorced

amother

Stone

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 8:41 am

amother [ Stoneblue ] wrote:

There are separate halachos for being on a reality show?

There actually are separate halachos for someone who goes against the Torah, e.g, intermarries.
It is permitted to speak lashon hara about them.

fmt4

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 9:24 am

amother [ Stone ] wrote:

There actually are separate halachos for someone who goes against the Torah, e.g, intermarries.
It is permitted to speak lashon hara about them.

My point is that just because it’s permitted doesn’t mean it’s right. Don’t try and convince yourself that you’re a good person for being happy about another person’s pain.

And yes, this is painful for them. It’s not part of the show and it’s not for publicity.

amother

Puce

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 9:36 am

fmt4 wrote:

So then why did she post that attention seeking reel yesterday on Instagram?

Is it not for publicity? If she doesn't respect herself and her relationships, she can't expect that from others.

rainbow dash

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 9:38 am

fmt4 wrote:

It's all over the internet. Enews etc.

amother

Azure

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 9:41 am

amother [ Puce ] wrote:

So then why did she post that attention seeking reel yesterday on Instagram?

Is it not for publicity? If she doesn't respect herself and her relationships, she can't expect that from others.

Right totally felt so staged and scripted
Starting to believe this separation was scripted before the show to give the producers more of a story to get a 2nd season- let's hope there's no season 3 such a chilul Hashem Can't Believe It

amother

Azure

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 9:45 am

fmt4 wrote:

It's all for publicity in reality TV - why else would it be a reality show, have you watched reality TV - Kardashians, Real Housewives etc.. it's all for viewers and gossip the more talk the higher the chances of another season!

It's called show business- doesn't matter how ugly they put themselves out there on purpose to get people talking just simply Google "batsheva haart" she is dying for publicity.

amother

Ghostwhite

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 9:47 am

Aaron wasn't always in an mo school. and even though his parents moved him to an mo school, it seems they sent him to a more frum camp over the summer. he came back from camp and decided he won't talk to girls anymore even though they were in his class. that's not hidden, he says on the show that he knows who the other girl is, she's in his class. but he still had made a decision not to talk to girls even though they were in his class. julia set up a situation where the girls are there so he should feel required to talk to them. and she made fun of him by reading his texts out loud for the camera. the text where he had broken up with the girl and said he can't talk to her anymore.

amother

Puce

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 9:51 am

amother [ Ghostwhite ] wrote:

Unacceptable behaviour. Poor poor boy.

amother

Amber

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 9:55 am

amother [ Ghostwhite ] wrote:

Right wing is not "more frum" that MO.

amother

Denim

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 10:51 am

amother stoneblue, maybe because Walder's been accused but not convicted. Once he's convicted it's a different situation.

amother

Tomato

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 12:10 pm

fmt4 wrote:

I don’t see anyone trying to convince themselves that they’re doing a Mitzva by talking about them.

Writergirl

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 12:53 pm

amother [ Olive ] wrote:

Julia's also getting divorced.

Since the show aired she hasn't been seen once with Silvio. I imagine they've been apart for a long time. So this is the great freedom from fundamentalism....wow what an advertisement for that.

amother

Stoneblue

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 12:56 pm

amother [ Acacia ] wrote:

Maybe it was for the show
Maybe not
I do feel bad for them bec in their earliest years they looked so happy and they gave so many years of history.

Batsheva is playing it up. When you have images of crawling into bed sad for an Instagram post. It means you propped the camera and prepared and preformed for it. That didn’t sit well with me that it was a prepared sad post.

She’s an influencer, it’s literally how she makes a living by posting these kinds of things.

amother

Azure

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 12:59 pm

Writergirl wrote:

Since the show aired she hasn't been seen once with Silvio. I imagine they've been apart for a long time. So this is the great freedom from fundamentalism....wow what an advertisement for that.

Hmm interesting take you think ?!?

amother

Stoneblue

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 1:00 pm

amother [ Stone ] wrote:

There actually are separate halachos for someone who goes against the Torah, e.g, intermarries.
It is permitted to speak lashon hara about them.

That’s not Batsheva though.

amother

Stoneblue

Mon, Nov 22 2021, 1:29 pm

amother [ Denim ] wrote:

amother stoneblue, maybe because Walder's been accused but not convicted. Once he's convicted it's a different situation.

Well the other poster said LH doesn’t apply to public figures.