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amother
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 Wed, Dec 01 2021, 12:16 am
I was wondering if some Lakewood ladies can chime in. I always gave a nice check to my boys rebbes on Chanukah. English teachers I gave much less. I’m wondering how it works in mesivta where my son has first Seder second Seder and night Seder rebbes. Also he came home saying they’re collecting $25 a boy for the rebbe for Chanukah… wondering if ppl don’t give mesivta rebbe same as elementary rebbe?
I know I can give what I want but I’m asking what’s standard as we really can not afford it at all but have always choked up the money to give the rebbeim a nice check.
Thanks everyone!
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amother
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 9:39 am
I’m surprised they are collecting. Maybe one boy decided this. To get present from boys.
Ppl tip mesivta rebbes a lot bec they are with the boys a lot. First Seder and second Seder. I was told night Seder is optional.
$100 each is typical.
First Seder bec they are with boys long time.
Second Seder bec harder job keeping boys motivated after morning.
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amother
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 10:04 am
They usually don’t collect at that age. It’s usually left up to the parents to decide how much to give. I think people give anywhere from $75-$250. Really depends on the kesher the Rebbi has with your son and how much you can afford now.
Don’t forget that it’s also expected to give something for Purim.
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amother
Floralwhite
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 10:04 am
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I give to the rebbi's. Nobody collected though. Does anyone know about bais medrash. My son is out of town, how do I give.
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keym
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 10:18 am
I was told it goes Mesivta by Mesivta and you have to know what happens there.
My son's Mesivta, the boys collect $20 and buy a big gift for 1st Seder Rebbi and small token gifts for the other Rebbeim. And Purim they give a big gift to 2nd Seder Rebbi and token gifts to the others.
Our neighbor sends checks no collection.
And another neighbor they do a collection of $50 per boy and they give nice gifts to all the Rebbeim plus smaller gifts to the halacha Rebbi and Menahel.
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amother
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Thu, Dec 02 2021, 12:38 am
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Thanks everyone. I’m just going to give the checks as usual.
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