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amother
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 6:49 pm
I’m not sure if to give money or present or anything
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SuperWify
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 6:50 pm
My parents once gave each couple $150 to a restaurant which was very nice.
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sub
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 7:04 pm
Nope. The grandkids get the presents.
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SG18
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 7:12 pm
My parents gave us a gift certificate for a photo shoot, which I'm excited about
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gootlfriends
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 7:30 pm
My in laws used to buy gifts. Then the grandchildren numbers grew and she started giving money. Much better for me. And then I pick what the toy is. Quality, type, etc.
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jellybelly94
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 7:37 pm
Uts very nice to give gelt to the married. Eo can use a little extra cash so I'm sure it will be very appreciated:)) gifts to grandkids r also super nice n it kind of is a present for the parents too so u can do tht instead if makes it easier on u!
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amother
Scarlet
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 7:59 pm
So far I do, because so far bH I can afford it. At some point I’ll quit I suppose. Probably when I retire and am living on pension and savings. My kids are 30 and up and for all I know some of them make more than dh and I do.
There’s no Halacha about this. Some people quit when their kids have kids and they give to the grandchildren instead. Whatever suits you and your budget.
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BrisketBoss
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 8:07 pm
So far, I do get gifts from both sets. Nothing huge. :- )
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amother
Mistyrose
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 8:32 pm
My in laws five check to each family and ask parents to use some money toward something for kids.
My parents give money seperate to couple and grandchildren.
Some years my mother in law gave couples and kids own gift (like towels, tablecloth, travel mugs, books, cds) but as the family grew it became more complicated.
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amother
Daisy
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Wed, Dec 01 2021, 8:51 pm
Money to the married kids
And toys to the grandkids
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amother
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Thu, Dec 02 2021, 3:45 pm
How much is a nice amount for a middle class family.
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So what
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Thu, Dec 02 2021, 3:54 pm
I got $200 from my in laws and $500 from my parents. But I'm the only married from both sides.
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happy chick
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Sat, Dec 04 2021, 9:00 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote: | How much is a nice amount for a middle class family. |
$150 form parents, $200 from in-laws (sometimes different, depending on circumstances). kids get anywhere from $2-$20 depending on age.
dont forget, parents dont owe their children anything. anything we get is a "bonus" and very much appreciated.
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DarkCyan
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Sat, Dec 04 2021, 9:03 pm
I get $100 from parent and $100 from in-laws. Parents also sponsor a chanuka dinner at a restaurant for the family.
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