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amother [ OP ] wrote: | Still tentative but hoping to, yes. I have a full-time job offer already and my husband's accepted into a kollel. |
If you have any older kids make sure they are accepted into school BEFORE you move her.
As far as people working, most people have one parent on a flexible schedule such as in kollel and one parent with a more serious job. Typically whoever is not the breadwinner fills in the childcare gaps.
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Sat, Jan 22 2022, 10:13 pm
Me and my husband both worked full time when we first moved here. We send our kids to mizrachi so we had the full time aftercare option but I ended up hiring a babysitter for those hours.
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amother


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Sat, Jan 22 2022, 10:20 pm
A lot of the kollels pay, so there is no need for the wife to work full time. Most women work part time and between that and cheap housing and generally way lower standards than “in town”, they make it work.
Would it be wise for women to work full time and save for the future when they’ll need more money? Possibly financially, but it’s not the culture here. People live a slower paced, more relaxed lifestyle here. I don’t regret doing it this way. I got to spend lots of time with my kids, friends, neighbors, had time to be involved and participate in the community, volunteer, go to the gym, make supper for new moms, host shabbos meals, I moved and I miss it.
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GoldFlowers


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Sat, Jan 22 2022, 10:34 pm
OP where exactly are you moving to?
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Sun, Jan 23 2022, 9:15 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote: | hopefully University Heights |
I started out in UH and now live in beachwood. It’s possible that most women don’t work full time, but I know many who do. Good luck! I hope something works out.
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