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amother
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Post Tue, May 24 2022, 1:12 am
amother [ OP ] wrote:
No
Nothing will make things better

I didn't mean to make it better, I meant as a distraction
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amother
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Post Tue, May 24 2022, 1:28 am
amother [ Babypink ] wrote:
I didn't mean to make it better, I meant as a distraction


Well I came here for distraction
so far that didn't work out too well
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amother
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Post Tue, May 24 2022, 1:30 am
amother [ OP ] wrote:
Well I came here for distraction
so far that didn't work out too well

I'm sorry I'm not much help. Crying
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amother
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Post Tue, May 24 2022, 1:33 am
amother [ Babypink ] wrote:
I'm sorry I'm not much help. Crying


It's not your fault
Don't feel bad
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amother
Babypink


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 1:38 am
amother [ OP ] wrote:
It's not your fault
Don't feel bad

I do feel bad, that you're going through a hard time and so sad.
Trying to get to bed now, hope you can too.
Sweet dreams.
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amother
OP


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 1:38 am
amother [ Babypink ] wrote:
I do feel bad, that you're going through a hard time and so sad.
Trying to get to bed now, hope you can too.
Sweet dreams.


Thank you.
My baby just woke up.
I guess that's distraction.
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amother
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Post Tue, May 24 2022, 1:47 am
amother [ OP ] wrote:
Thank you.
My baby just woke up.
I guess that's distraction.
Or we can just cry together

Something that's helped me in difficult times: (If I'm totally off, dismiss me, and please forgive me)
Hold your baby tight. Think about how your baby feels - secure in your arms.
When I bring my babies for shots (or anything else painful but necessary, if you don't vaccinate), I hold my babies, try to soothe them, and say Mommy's here... And then I realize, Hashem is doing the same. It hurts. But like a baby's shot, it's good for us. Just as the baby doesn't know why, he just knows that it hurts and Mommy's not taking away the pain, it hurts us so much and we don't know why. But Hashem is holding us so tight.
I found that only as a Mommy was I able to visualize this. Hold your baby and feel his dependence. There's nothing like that in the world.
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amother
OP


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 2:00 am
amother [ Babypink ] wrote:
Something that's helped me in difficult times: (If I'm totally off, dismiss me, and please forgive me)
Hold your baby tight. Think about how your baby feels - secure in your arms.
When I bring my babies for shots (or anything else painful but necessary, if you don't vaccinate), I hold my babies, try to soothe them, and say Mommy's here... And then I realize, Hashem is doing the same. It hurts. But like a baby's shot, it's good for us. Just as the baby doesn't know why, he just knows that it hurts and Mommy's not taking away the pain, it hurts us so much and we don't know why. But Hashem is holding us so tight.
I found that only as a Mommy was I able to visualize this. Hold your baby and feel his dependence. There's nothing like that in the world.


It's good to have that security.

I don't know what I believe in right now.
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amother
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Post Tue, May 24 2022, 2:02 am
amother [ OP ] wrote:
It's good to have that security.

I don't know what I believe in right now.

Hug
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amother
OP


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 10:01 pm
Tell me somethin' girl...

For reference
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amother
NeonBlue


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 10:15 pm
Hiya! Mind u if I join your pity party? I know it's not the same and mine is probably a lotess tragic then what ure going thru but I was told today that I must start ivf cuz without I can not have children.
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amother
Indigo


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 10:37 pm
amother [ NeonBlue ] wrote:
Hiya! Mind u if I join your pity party? I know it's not the same and mine is probably a lotess tragic then what ure going thru but I was told today that I must start ivf cuz without I can not have children.


Hugs. Please do not minimize your own pain. Everyone has their own struggles and yours are so valid. May you soon be blessed with healthy and beautiful children who bring you only nachas and joy.
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amother
NeonBlue


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 10:40 pm
amother [ Indigo ] wrote:
Hugs. Please do not minimize your own pain. Everyone has their own struggles and yours are so valid. May you soon be blessed with healthy and beautiful children who bring you only nachas and joy.

Thanks. umein! What I was trying to say was I know this isn't my thread but the ops and I don't want to take away from her and whatever she might be going thru. I'm not gonna start a thread for this but it feels good to write it and I love you for your sympathy.
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amother
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Post Tue, May 24 2022, 10:40 pm
amother [ NeonBlue ] wrote:
Hiya! Mind u if I join your pity party? I know it's not the same and mine is probably a lotess tragic then what ure going thru but I was told today that I must start ivf cuz without I can not have children.

Who's comparing challenges?
This sounds pretty big to me.
And if someone else has it worse, that does not make your pain less.
Heart Heart Heart
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amother
NeonBlue


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 10:43 pm
amother [ Babypink ] wrote:
Who's comparing challenges?
This sounds pretty big to me.
And if someone else has it worse, that does not make your pain less.
Heart Heart Heart

Thank you and umain. My story is a weird one. I actually got pregnant about a year and a half ago and missed. They told me the reason had nothing to do with me. It chocked on the cord. But I haven't gotten pregnant since and today I was told that I can't get preg without ivf
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amother
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Post Tue, May 24 2022, 10:46 pm
amother [ Indigo ] wrote:
May you soon be blessed with healthy and beautiful children who bring you only nachas and joy.

I see I missed this post right before me. She said it better than I could've.
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amother
OP


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 11:44 pm
amother [ NeonBlue ] wrote:
Hiya! Mind u if I join your pity party? I know it's not the same and mine is probably a lotess tragic then what ure going thru but I was told today that I must start ivf cuz without I can not have children.


I'm sorry it turned into a pity party.
I hope that very soon you'll have a celebratory party.

I'm so sorry for your loss and your difficulties.
Hatzlacha on your journey.
May it go easily for you.
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amother
OP


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 11:46 pm
And for those who have an interest, I am fine now.
Trying to take advantage of the brief feeling of peace.
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amother
NeonBlue


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 11:46 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
I'm sorry it turned into a pity party.
I hope that very soon you'll have a celebratory party.

I'm so sorry for your loss and your difficulties.
Hatzlacha on your journey.
May it go easily for you.

Thanks and the same to you! How are you doing? I hope less sad then yesterday?
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amother
Babypink


 

Post Tue, May 24 2022, 11:48 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote:
And for those who have an interest, I am fine now.
Trying to take advantage of the brief feeling of peace.

Hoping that feeling just continues
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