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amother
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 Fri, Mar 03 2023, 10:32 am
| amother Chartreuse wrote: | | This year my son had a 72 year old rebbe, he was abusive from day one. My son is 4th grade and bh I never had any problems w him, suddenly the teacher saw adhd, autism, add, learning disabilities, and teacher also hit him w a stick( my hub happened to drop off my son's missing siddur and saw from the window the rebbe hitting him, hewas so shocked that he just went into the car to regulate himself so he wont explode in public at this rebbe ) he confronted the rebbe that night and the rebbe denied the hitting. When my hub told him he saw from the window the teacher started badmouthing my son. Mind you, the principal said this is the best rebbe. The next day that teacher told my son I will hit you as much as I want , ur father thinks he will control me. To make a very long and painful story short , where the teacher kept bullying and name calling him publicly, and emotional abuse beyond imagination, my son was home for around 2 weeks till the cheder finally agreed to switch him class. Of coarse they told me it never happened before w this teacher( although another parent called me up and said her son is miserable and asked how I succeeded to get him into a different class) |
Which yeshiva was this?
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cocomelon
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Sat, Mar 04 2023, 1:51 pm
My daughter was in 6th grade at the time. The only reason she was in the school to begin with is bc I have a larger family who’d already been through most schools in Monsey. None of the kids were easy, and by the time dd was old enough for school, Bnos bracha was the only one that would take her. I have no excuse for allowing the punishment to go on, but I will say that the principal brainwashed me, and dd made the best of her situation so she didn’t seem too upset to me. This wasn’t even the worst of what had happened in that school, but dd moved on.
Fast forward to the summer before dd started 10th grade. We started to see a psychiatrist and that’s when we became aware of the horrors our children went through, and the “invisible” damage. I immediately spoke to our Rav who instructed my husband and I to remove our 12 year old son, even if it meant he’d be homeschooled (as mentioned above, no schools would take my family). He now does a few learning programs and has a rebbe learn with him daily.
The school has boys and girls together until 2nd or 3rd grade, when the boys move to a different building (run by the principal’s husband). I wish I had the time to take legal action and hopefully get the school shut down, but I’m incredibly occupied lately. I plan to do something as soon as I have a spare minute.
About the pros I gave on the school, my daughter has chosen to focus on the benefits, to enable herself to move on in life without the bitterness.
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amother
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Sat, Mar 04 2023, 8:13 pm
| cocomelon wrote: | My daughter was in 6th grade at the time. The only reason she was in the school to begin with is bc I have a larger family who’d already been through most schools in Monsey. None of the kids were easy, and by the time dd was old enough for school, Bnos bracha was the only one that would take her. I have no excuse for allowing the punishment to go on, but I will say that the principal brainwashed me, and dd made the best of her situation so she didn’t seem too upset to me. This wasn’t even the worst of what had happened in that school, but dd moved on.
Fast forward to the summer before dd started 10th grade. We started to see a psychiatrist and that’s when we became aware of the horrors our children went through, and the “invisible” damage. I immediately spoke to our Rav who instructed my husband and I to remove our 12 year old son, even if it meant he’d be homeschooled (as mentioned above, no schools would take my family). He now does a few learning programs and has a rebbe learn with him daily.
The school has boys and girls together until 2nd or 3rd grade, when the boys move to a different building (run by the principal’s husband). I wish I had the time to take legal action and hopefully get the school shut down, but I’m incredibly occupied lately. I plan to do something as soon as I have a spare minute.
About the pros I gave on the school, my daughter has chosen to focus on the benefits, to enable herself to move on in life without the bitterness. |
I am so sorry for what your family went through. Sounds like DD is very mature and growth oriented. The principal deserves zero credit.
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