Non-ANON Unpopular opinions!

hodeez

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:06 pm

Let's get the ball rolling.

I believe tichels that fully cover the hair are more tzniut than even a short wig.
I don't understand how everyone is in therapy, is it possible so many people have been traumatized?
I hate the look of mules, they are glorified slippers. Not sure how it became acceptable to wear them outside and even to events.

That was fun! Your turn!

vintagebknyc

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:10 pm

I don't understand why everyone spends $$$ on vitamins and supplements, when there are ZERO scientific studies that the vast majority of them work.

Not_in_my_town

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:11 pm

Hmmm.

Music is over-rated, though I'm finally learning to appreciate it on some level.

Socialization is over-rated.

Chenille snoods look TERRIBLE on 90% of people who wear them.

lamplighter

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:16 pm

Sometimes the grass IS greener on the other side ((and that's ok, it is what it is)

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keym

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:19 pm

Vacation (as in going away) is a luxury, not a necessity. People who are burnt out can recharge by just taking a bit off of work, they don't have to GO anywhere.

Plonis

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:21 pm

Women should not be going to male OBs unless they are specialists and the woman needs a specialist.

Birth control is not benign. It solves some problems but creates others. It's treated like Tylenol on here when it's a lot more serious.

The Shidduch Crisis is in significant part because of parents who are afraid to let their child meet anyone.

content

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:22 pm

keym wrote:

Vacation (as in going away) is a luxury, not a necessity. People who are burnt out can recharge by just taking a bit off of work, they don't have to GO anywhere.

And have the kids stay home?

barelyawake

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:23 pm

The shidduch system emphasizes all the wrong things.
We are marrying off helpless children that don’t have basic skills or any sense of independence.

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Java

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:24 pm

Frum society is inherently misogynistic, and I don't believe the way things are today is the way they were intended to be.

I hate it when people send out 'this is who the rabbanim said you should vote for in the election.' I don't believe the rabbanim know more than I do in terms of political candidates (at least not beyond what they were told by whichever guy with his own agenda.)

Java

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:26 pm

Most people look much better in knee length styles than in midi
And those pleated skirts that are in now send me back to high school, and not in a good way.

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Crookshanks

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:26 pm

The Surrendered Wife is 💩

emzod42

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:31 pm

Hashem probably understands I did my best to wash the vegetables myself.

imafriend

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:32 pm

Calling someone an apikorus is a cop-out from giving any answers.

Crookshanks

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:32 pm

Snape was a good guy (Java this one's for you)

Java

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:33 pm

Crookshanks wrote:

Snape was a good guy (Java this one's for you)

Ooh we can spend a while on this one.

Tranquil

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:38 pm

Just chiming in to say:

Love this thread.

Lets make sure it stays this way!

How about having NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS on anyone’s post in this thread so people will keep it up owithout sidetrack…

Just straight, raw opinion

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imafriend

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:41 pm

Most women today are inherintly feminist, even if they disagree with today's feminist movement.

Java

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:43 pm

The kollel lifestyle at its root is not healthy for a marriage. A lot of men are inherently primed to want to support their families and can struggle with their self worth if they're not the one doing that.

English3

Tue, Aug 23 2022, 3:43 pm

I totally agree that chenniles look ugly and that is why I wear bandanas and the new long ones, they are so cute.

People that laser their hairline look prettier.

Midwifes are the best at labour, no men or doctors.