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amother
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Wed, Sep 28 2022, 3:42 pm
Ds, 5, is generally a very well behaved, calm and obedient child. In the last few weeks he started having terrible outbursts when he’s upset or angry. He is never violent, but he can throw stuff down from the table, slap, kick, and yell some very not nice words that he would never say.
I try talking to him about it at a calm moment, and he knows it’s wrong. He always tells me he won’t do it again, but I don’t know how to teach him the right tools to overcome his tantrums.
Also, I can’t understand where this is coming from. Like I mentioned, he’s truly a well behaved child, pleasant to hang out with and was never like this.
If you have any advice or suggestions, please be so kind and share them. Tia!
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amother
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Wed, Sep 28 2022, 3:44 pm
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amother
Starflower
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Wed, Sep 28 2022, 3:46 pm
Can definitely be a symptom of strep. I would also try to figure out if something upsetting happened to him.
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amother
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Wed, Sep 28 2022, 3:49 pm
amother Starflower wrote: | Can definitely be a symptom of strep. I would also try to figure out if something upsetting happened to him. |
Like what? I don’t even know what to ask him, because when he’s calm and we discuss it he’s like, yes, I know, I was just really angry that brother took the toy I wanted, I’ll apologize …
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amother
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Wed, Sep 28 2022, 5:08 pm
Is he hungry or tired?
I am a pretty calm person but if I am hungry or tired I can lose it very quickly and the smallest thing can make me angry
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amother
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Wed, Sep 28 2022, 7:23 pm
amother Black wrote: | Is he hungry or tired?
I am a pretty calm person but if I am hungry or tired I can lose it very quickly and the smallest thing can make me angry |
No. It happens when he is well fed and rested. Of course when he’s tired and hungry it’s worse, but this is just out of the blue.
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Hashem_Yaazor
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Wed, Sep 28 2022, 7:32 pm
Did it coincide with the start of the school year? There may be some sort of issue going on there that he's holding it together outside the home but has reached his limits when he's in your safe environment and everything is triggering him.
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amother
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Wed, Sep 28 2022, 7:34 pm
Hashem_Yaazor wrote: | Did it coincide with the start of the school year? There may be some sort of issue going on there that he's holding it together outside the home but has reached his limits when he's in your safe environment and everything is triggering him. |
It started in the middle of the summer. He seems to be adjusting very well to the new morah, and he looks very happy.
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amother
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Wed, Sep 28 2022, 7:37 pm
This was our very first symptom of what was finally diagnosed as pandas
As you can see it's not your parenting
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amother
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Wed, Sep 28 2022, 9:31 pm
amother Poppy wrote: | This was our very first symptom of what was finally diagnosed as pandas
As you can see it's not your parenting |
He recently had a strep throat, do you think there’s a connection?
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amother
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Wed, Sep 28 2022, 10:10 pm
amother OP wrote: | He recently had a strep throat, do you think there’s a connection? | Yes
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