I'm asking because... (s/o shidduch questions)

GLUE

Mon, May 29 2023, 1:27 am

Cressel68 wrote:

Asking because a girl liking the color grey is a red-flag to us. It means that she isn't good at making friends her age so she hangs out with old grey-haired ladies.

Does she often have hangnails on her hands?

Hangnails are often a sign that someone washes a lot of dishes and we don't believe in plastic cutlery.

Does he comb his hair?

Tof Umachol

Tue, Jun 13 2023, 5:51 am

GLUE wrote:

Does he comb his hair?

I'm asking because for a man to comb his hair is a terrible waste of time, and my daughter would never marry someone who engages in such Bitul Torah.

Does he know how to whisper?

GLUE

Wed, Aug 09 2023, 3:11 am

Tof Umachol wrote:

I'm asking because for a man to comb his hair is a terrible waste of time, and my daughter would never marry someone who engages in such Bitul Torah.

Does he know how to whisper?

I am only asking because my daughter is very sensitive and if he spoke anything above a whisper she will think he is screaming at her.

Does he know how to use a can-opener?

Boca00

Wed, Aug 09 2023, 3:51 am

GLUE wrote:

I am only asking because my daughter is very sensitive and if he spoke anything above a whisper she will think he is screaming at her.

Does he know how to use a can-opener?

I’m asking because my daughter doesn’t know how to and I won’t always be around and available to open cans for her.

What makeup does she wear?

effess

Sun, Aug 13 2023, 2:20 am

I’m asking because makeup is the first gift we give to the engaged woman.

Does she know how to check kale for bugs?

ila

Sun, Aug 13 2023, 3:03 am

Im asking because I don't and need her to teach me
Does she listen to Boruch Levine music?

dena613

Sun, Aug 13 2023, 7:36 am

Asking because we are major Baruch Levine afficionados, and it's simply not a shidduch if she can't sing along at our monthly women family kumzitzes.

Can she quote pesukim from Tanach with fluency by heart?

effess

Sun, Aug 13 2023, 11:07 pm

I’m asking because we need another person on our Torah trivia team.

Does she have a good handwriting?

newinbp

Sun, Aug 13 2023, 11:12 pm

I'm asking because part of our shiddichim vetting process is an in depth handwriting analysis. I hope she's up to it.

Does he sit with his legs crossed or leg over one knee when relaxing?

Lake

Sun, Aug 13 2023, 11:27 pm

I’m asking because my daughter needs someone chilled and this is the perfect sign

How many classmates does he/she have?

dena613

Mon, Aug 14 2023, 12:14 am

I'm asking because we highly value deep meaningful relationships and believe that classes under 15 kids are best to foster them.

Does he wear shorts or long pants to bed?

Tof Umachol

Thu, Sep 07 2023, 2:15 pm

dena613 wrote:

Does he wear shorts or long pants to bed?

I'm asking because my daughter hates to be hot and will probably keep the bedroom absolutely freezing. He may only survive the nights if he wears long pants to bed.

Does he prefer whiskey or beer?

effess

Sun, Sep 10 2023, 2:07 am

I’m asking because we don’t drink anything with a W in our family. That rules out many men. There is a loophole. He can use V instead of W and be consistent and well accept him.

Does your child know how to shear sheep

Tue, Sep 12 2023, 7:36 am

I’m asking because my son has very thick curly hair and is particular about who shears er I mean cuts his hair.

Does she place the dessert spoon above the dinner plate or parallel to the soup spoon when setting the table ?

GLUE

Wed, Sep 13 2023, 2:14 pm

Gt wrote:

The problem of putting a dessert spoon next to the soup spoon is that everyone takes the dessert spoon for soup and needs a new one for dessert.
I have enough dishes to wash without adding more.

Will she sow her own wedding dress?

Thu, Sep 14 2023, 1:12 am

GLUE wrote:

I’m asking because we have a tradition to embroider all the ancestor’s names , going back 290 years, into the kallahs gown.

Does he know how to install carpet ?

effess

Thu, Sep 14 2023, 2:43 am

I’m asking bc we’re grandchildren of the holy rabbi shatiach and we need to keep our traditions for the future.

Does your daughter know how to make wigs?

Mon, Sep 18 2023, 11:21 pm

effess wrote:

I’m asking bc we’re grandchildren of the holy rabbi shatiach and we need to keep our traditions for the future.

Does your daughter know how to make wigs?

I’m asking because my son has always wanted to travel to China and India . And of course I would love to come Along !

Does he know how to steer a ship ?

effess

Mon, Sep 18 2023, 11:25 pm

I’m asking bc my son would a ship at the latest Chinese auction and he needs someone to steer with him, you see he’s too short to reach

Does your child know the right way to tie his shoes?

GLUE

Thu, Sep 21 2023, 12:27 am

effess wrote:

I’m asking bc my son would a ship at the latest Chinese auction and he needs someone to steer with him, you see he’s too short to reach

Does your child know the right way to tie his shoes?

I am only asking because my daughter still does not know and will need someone to help her.

Does she paint her toe nails?