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amother
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 12:59 pm
By her cousins. What can I do to help her?
I cant talk to parents they dont care.
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amother
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 1:04 pm
Maybe if you describe the bullying we'll be able to help more.
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amother
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 1:07 pm
Keep her away from them from all costs!
KEEP HER AWAY FROM THEM AT ALL COSTS!
You are the only one who can protect her! Nobody is advocating for your children except you.
I wish I could scream this from the rooftops.
PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN!!!
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amother
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 1:08 pm
Don't be afraid to talk to them sternly. If the parents ignore it, you do it. And keep your child away from them it possible.
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amother
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 1:11 pm
amother Hydrangea wrote: | Maybe if you describe the bullying we'll be able to help more. |
they try to exclude her. She cant play...
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amother
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 1:15 pm
She’s 3 you can get involved. I would walk over and say what’s the problem I hear you told her xyz? Do not be one of this parents that think your job is to never tell off another kid and therefore you allow your child to be bullied. That makes you complicit. She comes first period. Tell them what they are doing is wrong and how they can remedy it and stay there and make sure they follow through, her being left out at everybody family get together is going to destroy her.
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amother
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 1:16 pm
amother OP wrote: | they try to exclude her. She cant play... |
Do you live together? Otherwise you shouldn’t bring your child to an environment where you know she’ll be bullied . Even if it means missing family events.
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amother
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 1:17 pm
amother OP wrote: | they try to exclude her. She cant play... |
How old are the other kids? She should be playing with kids her own age.
Does she disrupt or ruin games/playing?
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sbil
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 1:19 pm
Excluding isn't bullying. Are they same age or older? As someone who's worked with other 3 year olds I don't think they can be bullies. If they are older they may just not want to play with a 3 year old. Yes it's painful when a child is excluded.
Next time you get together with cousins maybe bring an exciting game that your daughter can play with everyone...
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amother
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 1:30 pm
I agree it depends on the ages of the other kids. 3 is very young. Why don't you have her play next to you with some toys or snack etc.
If it's your first, you may not yet be familiar with what normal dynamics between older/ mixed age kids looks like
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amother
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 1:37 pm
amother Mulberry wrote: | Do you live together? Otherwise you shouldn’t bring your child to an environment where you know she’ll be bullied . Even if it means missing family events. |
I'd consider this an over reaction for a 3 year old. Keep a close eye & intervene as needed, but your child has more to gain socially by joining family events unless there's something really nasty going on.
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