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amother
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 Tue, Nov 29 2022, 11:18 am
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When you're planning for a family simcha, are you happy and excited or are you looking forward to when it's over? I'm wondering if it's common to dread it, or if this is a reflection of other circumstances in my life that are making me feel this way?
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amother
Mulberry
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 11:21 am
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I get extremely drained by huge social obligations like simchas. I’m typically over the moon happy that the relative is getting married/bar mitzvah/ whatever while also consciously mentally prepping for the drain and excited to be past it
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amother
Papaya
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 11:22 am
| amother OP wrote: | | When you're planning for a family simcha, are you happy and excited or are you looking forward to when it's over? I'm wondering if it's common to dread it, or if this is a reflection of other circumstances in my life that are making me feel this way? |
What are the other circumstances making it hard?
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Bnei Berak 10
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 11:40 am
| amother Mulberry wrote: | | I get extremely drained by huge social obligations like simchas. I’m typically over the moon happy that the relative is getting married/bar mitzvah/ whatever while also consciously mentally prepping for the drain and excited to be past it |
I'm the same.
Recently we had two of DH nieces married. A long as I can leave wedding when I want I'm OK.
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amother
Wine
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Tue, Nov 29 2022, 11:46 am
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Hate it, dread it, hate being in the same room as so many people and putting smile on my face and saying mazel tov to everyone. I hated my own wedding for that reason. Although my wedding was the happiest day of my life. I wished I could make a 10 people wedding in the backyard.
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