With dh in a hotel with the bathroom right there

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amother

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:05 am

Does anyone else find this uncomfortable? When I go with Dh to a hotel I think we both feel weird about using the bathroom because it's basically 15 feet from the bed. The room is quiet and it's just....awkward. I try to use the bathroom in the lobby but there's often people there as well.

Am I the only one who stresses about this? I just find it very weird if dh hears me doing my business in the bathroom. We want to go over a shabbos but I feel like I'm setting myself up for an uncomfortable situation.

SR97

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:06 am

Are you newly married?

healthymom1

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:06 am

Fun the water then you don’t hear anything. I would do it before a shower while the shower runs.

amother

Bisque

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:06 am

Youre married
whats awkward about hearing each other use the bathroom?
Are you newly married?

amother

Diamond

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:08 am

Run the water

amother

DarkMagenta

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:08 am

Yeah, this is the least of our concerns. We have no issues using the bathroom...

Rachel Shira

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:09 am

At home our bathroom is attached to our bedroom and is closer than 15 feet.

Ema of 5

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:09 am

We have a bathroom in our bedroom. Like others said, run the water….this should be the most awkward thing you ever face!!

amother

Tangerine

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:11 am

You're not strangers, nothing to be uncomfortable about! My bathroom at home is 2 feet from my bed....

amother

Almond

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:12 am

I’m guessing you don’t have a master bathroom.

amother

Pumpkin

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:13 am

I say run the water or shower if it feels that awkward

shabbatiscoming

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:27 am

OP, may this be your worst worry in your marriage. And may you be married for many more years.
Maybe you are newly married so you may not be used to these things yet, but remember, this is your spouse, your partner in life. Dont worry about this. Your married. Hearing your spouse use the bsthroom is just part of life. Dont let this make your vacation or getaway be ruined.

hodeez

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:27 am

This is so cute

amother

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:28 am

SR97 wrote:

Are you newly married?

Married over 15 years.

amother

Ghostwhite

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:37 am

We stayed at a place where the bathroom only had a wall halfway up. Then you really hear every sound.

amother

Blush

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:37 am

I’m married 20 years and so uncomfortable when somebody’s in the room when I use the bathroom.
If DH is not sleeping, I ask him to go out of the room when I use the bathroom.

And yes, I hate hotel bathrooms as well.

amother

DarkYellow

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:42 am

amother OP wrote:

Married over 15 years.

Have you never heard your DH use the bathroom or vice versa?
We hear each other all the time and it doesn't bother either one of us.

amother

Burntblack

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:44 am

I keep flushing
Wondering how you managed till now

Iymnok

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:45 am

Flush, then go. Or turn on the faucet or shower.

amother

Mulberry

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 11:48 am

What
Im married for two years and we never had this issue
Who cares if he hears you using the bathroom? or vice versa. I mean, youre married

I feel bad

Wonder how u managed all these years

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