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 Wed, Feb 01 2023, 12:22 pm
| amother Dustypink wrote: | No, I don't consider non chassidish modern, that's absurd! My mom's entire family is non chassidish.
But, as a chassidish women, I know what camps are acceptable in mainstream chassidish circles and which camps are not. I know what type of chassidish girls go to machaneinu and that many schools don't allow it. And because you're not a chassidish women, you cannot understand this mentality. |
If they don't allow it, it can't possibly be because it's modern (because it's not). It's likely because it's not Chassidish. I get that.
But you called it modern, modernish, etc....and that does bother me.
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Wed, Feb 01 2023, 12:38 pm
| amother OP wrote: | Many girls aren't going and I would like to give her a different experience with new people. I wouldn't want to say what school because people might say that she won't fit in here or there, when I wouldn't want to hear that😉
We live in lakewood mainstream Boro Park type |
If you live in Lakewood - you are either sending your daughter to Belz/Klausenberg school in which case there are associated camps.
Or she is in Bnos Binah/Bais Rochel in which case Machaneinu/Baiseinu is not too "modernish".
The term "modernish" turned people off but I understand what you are saying - they have lower standards than the ultra-chassidish Belz/Satmar. That doesn't make them modern. They're just not what you were looking for.
But if your daughter goes to Bnos Binah - most of their students don't speak Yiddish at home and I know many of their students in either Adas or Baiseinu. Bnos Binah isn't "Chassidish enough" for the more chassidish crowds.
If she is in a more chassidish place it's associated with a kehilla so why don't you send to their camp?
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Thu, Feb 02 2023, 2:39 am
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I think bobov-45 has a camp. Forgot the name.
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Thu, Feb 02 2023, 11:28 am
| #BestBubby wrote: | | I think bobov-45 has a camp. Forgot the name. |
Naaleh
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Thu, Feb 02 2023, 11:30 am
| amother Sienna wrote: | They're not opening this year. Neither is Palgei.
Baiseinu always fills up, but with other camps closing, I guess they filled up more quickly.
I'm humored that someone actually called baiseinu modern Lol. I'm Chassidish and send some of my girls there some years. My kids are in a great Chassidish school from a simple Chassidish home. My other girls have gone to Tomer Devora, Adas and Naaleh. Baiseinu has more Yeshivish girls, the other ones are stricly Chassidish, that's all. Frumkeit and Tznius they're all on the same level. |
I'm also humored and horrified that someone called Baiseinu modern. We are ultra frum and so are the girls who attend. But to be dlkz, I think what she meant is that for a very chassidish girl coming from a very chassidishe school/home, it can be considered a step down that where she's coming from. Ie. no beige tights, no collars, no yiddish. These things are so important in the very chassidishe world and are not issues that Baiseinu is makpid on, although they're makpid on so much else and in general, the whole atmosphere is so wholesome and frum. But I guess there's a diff between Satmar/Pupa frum and Bais Rochel Lakewood/Monsey/Bais Bracha frum. But I would still never call it modern! OMG!
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