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amother

Sat, Feb 18 2023, 7:51 pm

Dd is slightly developed. Bought her a bunch of training bras and she doesn’t like the feel of any and doesn’t understand why she should wear one. I’ve been letting her not wear under her uniform but really think in the summer she should have something.
How to explain and any ideas for something very comfortable?

amother

Kiwi

Sat, Feb 18 2023, 7:53 pm

Would she wear an undershirt with some support?

amother

Sat, Feb 18 2023, 8:30 pm

A regular undershirt is fine but the “ones with lines across” are uncomfortable

amother

Seagreen

Sat, Feb 18 2023, 8:51 pm

My daughter is the same and likes these.

https://www.target.com/p/girls.....45095

amother

Mauve

Sat, Feb 18 2023, 9:29 pm

amother Seagreen wrote:

My daughter is the same and likes these.

https://www.target.com/p/girls.....45095

I got these for my dd. It took months before she was ready to wear them. She only wear it occasionally for now. I don't want to force her, she is still in beginning phase of development, so it's OK if she doesn't wear it daily

notshanarishona

Sat, Feb 18 2023, 9:59 pm

It’s very normal in the beginning to feel uncomfortable. Unless she really needs it , I wouldn’t push . I would buy them and not apply pressure. When she notices her friends wearing one or starts feeling uncomfortable they will be there when she is ready.

amother

DarkRed

Sat, Feb 18 2023, 10:00 pm

Many teens are like this. I was like this. She will come around eventually. Just put them in her closet and don't pressure her.

amother

Navy

Sat, Feb 18 2023, 10:46 pm

My kids were the same I showed them how it looked in the mirror with and without. With tshirts you definitely need.

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