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Librarian

Mon, Apr 17 2023, 1:27 pm

My last son's bris was a bomb even though I took the time as a kimpeturin to meet with the caterer and I was very specific. My husband kept saying over and over it should be a kaparah. Even years later when I bring it up he says it again. It helps.

amother

Seagreen

Mon, Apr 17 2023, 3:29 pm

amother OP wrote:

He agreed he sent too little
There weren’t enough to set the tables!

It's not going to fix how you feel, but he should give you a discount.
And like others have said, people won't remember.
Also, just remember it's a bad reflection on him. His parnassah is at stake.

amother

Mon, Apr 17 2023, 8:32 pm

amother Seagreen wrote:

It's not going to fix how you feel, but he should give you a discount.
And like others have said, people won't remember.
Also, just remember it's a bad reflection on him. His parnassah is at stake.

How much should I ask for back?

amother

Sun, Apr 23 2023, 10:06 am

I still can’t get over it
Every time I look at the pictures of the empty tables I get upset, or hear that someone came but couldn’t eat cuz they didn’t have plates to take the food on….
Please help me!

amother

Narcissus

Sun, Apr 23 2023, 10:12 am

Why are people telling you they came but couldn’t eat??? Even if I would experience that I would never tell the baalei simcha!

Us sharing what went ‘wrong’ might be helpful, as it’s good to know that so many simchos have something. For me, I almost wasn’t in the room by the actual naming part. And I almost missed my husbands speech.

amother

Sun, Apr 23 2023, 10:20 am

amother Narcissus wrote:

I have no idea why but a few people told my husband…

amother

Steel

Sun, Apr 23 2023, 10:21 am

amother OP wrote:

How much should I ask for back?

Asking for $ back isn’t going to fix it for you. Just let it go.

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