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Dd 13yo I used to be a sweet girl



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amother
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Post Fri, May 17 2024, 10:48 am
Now she is awful, and mean to her 11yo sister constantly. Insulting her every chance she gets. They used to fight sometimes but were mostly friendly. Now they can't be in the same room. Anyone else experience this?
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amother
Calendula


 

Post Fri, May 17 2024, 10:54 am
Hormones. This too shall pass
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amother
Hunter


 

Post Fri, May 17 2024, 10:56 am
Literally my house now.
I’m told it’s normal 😝
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amother
Stoneblue


 

Post Fri, May 17 2024, 10:59 am
Of all of you saying it's normal, I need tips to survive it.

My kids are 9 and 10. And just actually gotten better recently. But omg they've been as it since forever.
I feel like I aged 50 years in the last 7 years.
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amother
Latte


 

Post Fri, May 17 2024, 11:06 am
Literally describing my house too! She has become so impossible. I don't have any advice but totally can relate to you.
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amother
Sunflower


 

Post Fri, May 17 2024, 11:13 am
Same! I see a big shift with my 9 yo… does that make sense it’s hormones?

She was my easy going on and now she is so moody!
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amother
Mimosa


 

Post Fri, May 17 2024, 11:48 am
It's only normal to an extent. Is she in control of herself? If you tell her to go to her room will she listen? Is she ever physical? Does the younger one make the problem worse? Is it affecting the younger one's self esteem and mood?
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giftedmom




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, May 17 2024, 11:50 am
I know it’s hormones when they get outright mean for no reason. It’s so hard to watch.
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amother
Snow


 

Post Fri, May 17 2024, 12:00 pm
For all these who think it gets better, it doesn't always if not handled properly.
My sister and I are a year apart and very very different. We fought throughout our teenaged years and still hate each other today.
Sorry OP, probably not what you wanted to hear.
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amother
Cobalt


 

Post Fri, May 17 2024, 12:55 pm
amother Snow wrote:
For all these who think it gets better, it doesn't always if not handled properly.
My sister and I are a year apart and very very different. We fought throughout our teenaged years and still hate each other today.
Sorry OP, probably not what you wanted to hear.


That's not very common. What's much more common is sisters who fight and then are very close as adults.
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