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Do you coordinate fleishig school lunch days with suppers?
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amother
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Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 6:49 pm
I tend to forget to. So sometimes ds will end up eating milchig by supper after having fleishig for lunch, without waiting 6 hours, but close to it.
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amother
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Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 6:50 pm
Yes, as much as possible.
Because waiting6 hrs for some of my kids translates to 6:45 pm
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Sebastian




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 6:50 pm
yes
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AlwaysHoping




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 7:14 pm
Twice a week they have fleishigs at school, so I make those my fleishigs nights. (I serve shabbos leftovers on Monday instead of Sunday)
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amother
Navyblue


 

Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 7:17 pm
Yes
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gootlfriends




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 7:19 pm
We only wait 3 hours so no. But it often works out anyway.
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amother
Pewter


 

Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 7:24 pm
Yes definitely try to.
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amother
Tealblue


 

Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 7:26 pm
Yes fleishigs in school Wednesdays so fleishig suppers Wednesday
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agreer




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 7:27 pm
Of course.

If you don't, what is your kid supposed to do? It's not his responsibility, it's yours.
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amother
Powderblue


 

Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 7:43 pm
They only serve fleishig on chassidishe yomim tovim.
And once every few weeks On a Wednesday which is anyways fleishig.
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amother
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Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 8:10 pm
My kids are young enough they only wait meal to meal, so it doesn't matter now, but it's definitely on my radar for the future. The hard thing is my kids are in different schools and one is Tuesday and Thursday fleshig and the other is Wednesday fleshig.
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AlwaysGrateful




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 8:33 pm
Yes, when they eat school lunches, I do. We don't eat a lot of fleishigs, and my kids are old enough that they should be waiting 6 hours.

If you're not sure how long your kids should be waiting at this age, ask your LOR. Could be they don't have to yet. But if they do, then yeah, you have to work around their school lunches.

Just wait until they start having siyumim, or class parties, or whatever. And they come home to your freshly-cooked milchig meal and say "But rebbe gave us hotdogs..."
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amother
Heather


 

Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 8:51 pm
No but we only wait 3 hours
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amother
Oatmeal


 

Post Tue, Sep 17 2024, 9:30 pm
Yes, definitely.
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Ruchel




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 18 2024, 9:16 am
There will be more than 6 anyway. People here don't eat before 8
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Brit in Israel




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 18 2024, 9:22 am
Are all your kids eating 2 main meals????

My kids eat a main in school /gan so supper for them is usually sandwiches and yogurt or french toast or cheese toast.
Once a week they are given parve meals so beans or chickpeas as the main so I will try make eggs or tival for that day. (You can see their mood the minute they come home that it was parve day.

This is one of the best things I find about sending the kids to Tzharon (it's optional in Israel) that I don't have to make a meal for them
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amother
Holly


 

Post Wed, Sep 18 2024, 9:28 am
Brit in Israel wrote:
Are all your kids eating 2 main meals????

My kids eat a main in school /gan so supper for them is usually sandwiches and yogurt or french toast or cheese toast.
Once a week they are given parve meals so beans or chickpeas as the main so I will try make eggs or tival for that day. (You can see their mood the minute they come home that it was parve day.

This is one of the best things I find about sending the kids to Tzharon (it's optional in Israel) that I don't have to make a meal for them


my kids are HUNGRY. they get breakfast in school but found it wasnt enough so they eat a breakfast before as well!
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amother
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Post Wed, Sep 18 2024, 9:30 am
Brit in Israel wrote:
Are all your kids eating 2 main meals????

My kids eat a main in school /gan so supper for them is usually sandwiches and yogurt or french toast or cheese toast.
Once a week they are given parve meals so beans or chickpeas as the main so I will try make eggs or tival for that day. (You can see their mood the minute they come home that it was parve day.

This is one of the best things I find about sending the kids to Tzharon (it's optional in Israel) that I don't have to make a meal for them


They're not actually eating that much in school IME. Just enough to be fleshig
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amother
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Post Wed, Sep 18 2024, 9:32 am
Not everyone waits 6 hours. We don't, so it's a nonissue
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ShishKabob




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 18 2024, 9:52 am
Yes, I do coordinate. It makes it easier like that. When they come home starving they can eat dinner right away and not nosh away till they are parve.
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