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amother
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Tue, Sep 17 2024, 9:22 pm
My six year old daughter hasn’t gained any weight or height in one year. She doesn’t eat much and when she does she only likes certain foods. These foods are predictable in texture, the way they’re sliced, the temperature etc. I’ve been asked how her sleep is and it’s fine I think - she occasionally wakes and sleep talks. She’s on an appetite stimulant but it’s just making her agitated and not increasing her consumption much. She is a little “sensory” and sensitive in general but she functions without it affecting her (aside from eating). We are very careful not to put any pressure or emphasis on eating or eating specific things. Mealtimes are relaxed and pleasant - we provide food and kids decide if/ what they want to eat. I feel totally helpless here. We are being followed but a gastroenterologist who did all the testing - celiac, thyroid, CBC, abdominal ultrasound etc and everything is fine BH. I was told to get an Arfid eval but then if she has that it’s long term feeding therapy with no insurance coverage for that treatment. And is there ever improvement with therapy? Can it happen at such a young age? Many of the centers don’t work with kids under age 8 or 12. Any ideas of what I should do for her? Sometimes it’s hard to be a mom and watch kids struggle without being able to help…
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Periwinkle
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Tue, Sep 17 2024, 9:43 pm
Did she have upper and lower endoscopy? It can be Crohn's, EoE, or something less obvious. It can also be pandas, I know no-one likes to hear that, but it is a possibility, there's growing research on the link between pandas and arfid. It can also be a food sensitivity that wouldn't come up on testing.
Sorry you're dealing with this. It's really tough.
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Tue, Sep 17 2024, 10:02 pm
amother Periwinkle wrote: | Did she have upper and lower endoscopy? It can be Crohn's, EoE, or something less obvious. It can also be pandas, I know no-one likes to hear that, but it is a possibility, there's growing research on the link between pandas and arfid. It can also be a food sensitivity that wouldn't come up on testing.
Sorry you're dealing with this. It's really tough. | Exactly this. Also non celiac gluten sensitivity.
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DarkGray
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Tue, Sep 17 2024, 10:26 pm
Did you try experimenting with different fatty foods?
Ice cream? Eggs with cheese? Nuts?
I would ask for a blood test that can tell you if she's low on protein and vitamins.
Was it the same scale?
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mha3484
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Tue, Sep 17 2024, 10:42 pm
That was me as a kid. I ate very few foods and was never on the growth chart. I think for me it was a response to a bunch of life challenges I had. I started trying more foods in high school when said challenges started easing up and now as an adult ill eat almost anything.
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mandr
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Tue, Sep 17 2024, 10:44 pm
Did you go to an endocrinologist? At that age, even if kids are really picky eaters they should still be growing. Maybe she has a growth disorder. Very often these come along with significantly reduced appetite.
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amother
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Tue, Sep 17 2024, 10:55 pm
I have a few threads here about my child with ARFID.
You can search for them. I have put all the information that I have on there.
We used Dr. Miriam Wolosh from Morristown NJ. She is an incredible person and works really well with this.
There's a way you can get insurance to pay for the sessions with her. Advanced Adcocacy helped us with that.
Devorah Levinson from Releif set us up if I remember correctly.
Wishing you lots of hatzlacha and energy for this journey. It is exhausting. 🙈
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amother
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Wed, Sep 18 2024, 10:37 pm
Thank you so much for these helpful ideas. I’ve been researching these options. Thank you so much for taking the time to help me out and guide me. Amen to all your brachos and thanks for the validation that this is challenging.
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Feverfew
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Wed, Sep 18 2024, 10:50 pm
Op, I wish you lots of hatzlacha on your journey.
I know celiac testing is not very accurate & is worth a trial run ( I have several family members who have obvious celiac symptoms but tested negative).
Also like someone already wrote, a child that eats a little but not what we would consider enough should also be growing some. Zero growth over an entire year for such a young child is pretty extreme.
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giftedmom
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Wed, Sep 18 2024, 11:29 pm
Definitely see an endocrinologist and get her growth hormone levels checked as well as an MRI.
If she’s getting enough protein her growth shouldn’t be so affected. I have one sibling who lived on 3 foods til the age of 14 and is the tallest in our family.
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Bubblegum
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Wed, Sep 18 2024, 11:42 pm
amother OP wrote: | My six year old daughter hasn’t gained any weight or height in one year. She doesn’t eat much and when she does she only likes certain foods. These foods are predictable in texture, the way they’re sliced, the temperature etc. I’ve been asked how her sleep is and it’s fine I think - she occasionally wakes and sleep talks. She’s on an appetite stimulant but it’s just making her agitated and not increasing her consumption much. She is a little “sensory” and sensitive in general but she functions without it affecting her (aside from eating). We are very careful not to put any pressure or emphasis on eating or eating specific things. Mealtimes are relaxed and pleasant - we provide food and kids decide if/ what they want to eat. I feel totally helpless here. We are being followed but a gastroenterologist who did all the testing - celiac, thyroid, CBC, abdominal ultrasound etc and everything is fine BH. I was told to get an Arfid eval but then if she has that it’s long term feeding therapy with no insurance coverage for that treatment. And is there ever improvement with therapy? Can it happen at such a young age? Many of the centers don’t work with kids under age 8 or 12. Any ideas of what I should do for her? Sometimes it’s hard to be a mom and watch kids struggle without being able to help… |
Have you ruled out OCD? or ASD? both of these can impact sensitivity and particularity around food.
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Fuchsia
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Thu, Sep 19 2024, 12:30 am
The growth component is worrying. I ahve a child with ARFID but he grows normally. I would agree that you should go to an endocrinologist.
My son is treated in a feeding center that specializes in children under 9. I don't know if you have something similar near you?
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mandr
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Thu, Sep 19 2024, 9:45 am
My son's endo actually explained the concept of growing to me. She said that until about age 2, growth is almost exclusively dependent upon the nutrition from food. After that, the growth hormone axis takes over and it doesn't really matter how much they eat. However, if they don't eat enough at this point they become very thin, while still growing taller each year. Because growing is happening regardless of what's consumed. But their BMI will drop if they don't get enough calories.
If you're in the NY area, may I recommend Dr Madeleine Harbison.
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Topaz
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Thu, Sep 19 2024, 9:57 am
Could be:
Arfid -no personal experience with that.
ASD- mine for years only ate certain foods and has a slow growth pattern. Now my kid eats more at least... maturity, some meds, and also finding a way to convince my kid to try something that "works with the way their brain works".
HGH deficiency, idiopathic short stature... - I have one kid with this. Usually no growth in a year would cause them to test for that, especially if they are in a low percentile. See a pediatric endocrinologist.
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Wildflower
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Sun, Sep 22 2024, 2:51 pm
Can try Kate farm formula drinks to get her to gain weight. Did she slack off eating a year ago or was always picky?
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