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amother
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 1:35 am
I only have one bed, do harchakos of physically not sleeping together apply on Yom Kippur? Do I need to get a blow up mattress?
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effess
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 2:07 am
Yk separation is biblical. Not a minhag.
You need a separate bed😔
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kugelEater
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 4:20 am
What would you do if you were niddah?
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Raizle
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 4:24 am
kugelEater wrote: | What would you do if you were niddah? |
Maybe she doesn't become nidda.
It happens
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kugelEater
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 4:25 am
Raizle wrote: | Maybe she doesn't become nidda.
It happens |
Ever ever ever? How does that work? (how can I sign up? lol)
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amother
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 4:28 am
kugelEater wrote: | Ever ever ever? How does that work? (how can I sign up? lol) |
Its not "fun" - people without a womb don't get a period ( I have a friend like this, she had 2 kids thru surrogacy)
But my assumption is that she is away for sukkos and the vacation home or hotel room does not have two beds....
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amother
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 4:30 am
kugelEater wrote: | Ever ever ever? How does that work? (how can I sign up? lol) |
I had a hysterectomy for medical reasons at age 37. Therefore, I stopped being nida at a relatively young age. B"H I already had 4 children.
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amother
Hyacinth
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 4:38 am
My in laws are past menopause. When they moved as seniors they brought the second bed with them to have just for Yom kipper.
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amother
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 4:38 am
kugelEater wrote: | Ever ever ever? How does that work? (how can I sign up? lol) |
Ever heard of menopause?
I didn't know that we need to separate the beds for y'k. That's new to me.
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amother
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 5:17 am
kugelEater wrote: | Ever ever ever? How does that work? (how can I sign up? lol) |
Menopause??? hysterectomy???
So many reasons why one would never be nidda.
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amother
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 5:19 am
effess wrote: | Yk separation is biblical. Not a minhag.
You need a separate bed😔 |
What is the source?
We have one bed, I had to have a hystetectomy.
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Raizle
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 5:39 am
Yeah I don't think you have to have an extra bed just for Yom Kippur unless you don't trust yourselves.
You can't be intimate though
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amother
Apricot
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 6:06 am
Raizle wrote: | Yeah I don't think you have to have an extra bed just for Yom Kippur unless you don't trust yourselves.
You can't be intimate though |
No, on Yom Kippur you need to jeep harchakos even if you do trust yourselves.
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 6:10 am
You need another bed. It’s Halacha.
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Brit in Israel
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 6:14 am
Raizle wrote: | Yeah I don't think you have to have an extra bed just for Yom Kippur unless you don't trust yourselves.
You can't be intimate though |
Pretty sure it doesn't work like that for YK and Tisha baav.
Of course OP should ask her Rav.
We will all be happy to hear for her otherwise.
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Hashem_Yaazor
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 6:31 am
It's one night, can someone sleep on the couch?
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Raizle
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 6:51 am
Brit in Israel wrote: | Pretty sure it doesn't work like that for YK and Tisha baav.
Of course OP should ask her Rav.
We will all be happy to hear for her otherwise. |
So people who no longer get their periods have to keep an extra bed for 2 days a year? Ok I'm curious what the Rov will say. OP please let us know. If you have to do it then I'd just get a blow up bed
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Hashem_Yaazor
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 6:54 am
They need to have an alternative location for sleeping for two nights a year, yes.
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amother
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 6:58 am
I was told we do not need to keep all harchakos on Tisha B'Av, but yes on YK.
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zaq
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Mon, Oct 07 2024, 7:27 am
kugelEater wrote: | Ever ever ever? How does that work? (how can I sign up? lol) |
Post menopause, post hysterectomy,etc. Not everyone here is a fertile twenty-year-old.
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