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amother
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Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 1:33 pm
If you recently married off your child how much did the wedding cost?
Also where was the wedding and what is the breakdown?
I would like to know the entire total, including the wedding night, setting up the apartment, Sheva brochos and gifts. Everything
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amother
Holly


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 2:27 pm
80-100,000$
No time to do the breakdown now.
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amother
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Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 4:21 pm
Thanks. And if you don't know then could you just say that you don't know. I am trying to figure out how much it will cost to marry the kids.
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amother
Aquamarine  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 4:28 pm
amother Holly wrote:
80-100,000$
No time to do the breakdown now.


Absolute insanity. That is not normal. It must change.
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amother
Anemone  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 4:39 pm
I got married within the last 2 years.
Total was approx 55k. I don't know the breakdown.
Takana chasuna in the UK.
No furniture.
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amother
Amaryllis  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:13 pm
amother Holly wrote:
80-100,000$
No time to do the breakdown now.


Plenty chasidush not spending that....
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amother
Slategray  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:34 pm
amother Amaryllis wrote:
Plenty chasidush not spending that....


Actually she is correct unfortunatly. A family member is marrying off a child, bare bones wedding (by chassidish standard) and he told me it is costing home 100k. Insanity
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amother
Aconite  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:36 pm
My parents don't make weddings that cost more than $60K.
My in laws don't make for less then $100K....
OP, make a wedding within your budget, regardless of what others do. But for $60K, you can have a regular beautiful wedding.
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amother
Buttercup


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:36 pm
amother Slategray wrote:
Actually she is correct unfortunatly. A family member is marrying off a child, bare bones wedding (by chassidish standard) and he told me it is costing home 100k. Insanity

For what?
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amother
  Aconite  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:37 pm
amother Slategray wrote:
Actually she is correct unfortunatly. A family member is marrying off a child, bare bones wedding (by chassidish standard) and he told me it is costing home 100k. Insanity


Then it's absolutely not a bare bones wedding. You can definitely make a nice wedding for $60K. If their wedding is $100K , it's not bare bones.
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amother
NeonPink  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:37 pm
$60-$80K

If you are Satmar $100K plus
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amother
  Slategray  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:38 pm
amother Buttercup wrote:
For what?


Including furniture, clothing for entire family for wedding and sheva brachos, fixing up appt etc..
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amother
  Slategray


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:40 pm
amother Aconite wrote:
Then it's absolutely not a bare bones wedding. You can definitely make a nice wedding for $60K. If their wedding is $100K , it's not bare bones.


Yes, it is. Wedding is in a tekunah hall, lots of stuff second hand. I agree the standard is insane. Why do couples need italian furniture?? They can get beautiful sets at ikea. When they can afford it they can buy, id they want. Why do they need high end dishes? Its insane.
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amother
Forsythia  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:40 pm
Mine was also in the 100K range Nothing extravagant or or out of the ordinary. Got bedroom set and chest and dinette set on Wayfair. No dining room furniture. Tried being very careful. The shaitels were probably our biggest expense, besides the wedding night.
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amother
Offwhite  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:41 pm
amother NeonPink wrote:
$60-$80K

If you are Satmar $100K plus


Why?
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amother
Thistle  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:42 pm
amother Anemone wrote:
I got married within the last 2 years.
Total was approx 55k. I don't know the breakdown.
Takana chasuna in the UK.
No furniture.


Wow that sounds too much. I'm scared now 😯
Did you have loads of people at the dinner?
55k for a takana wedding?! Insane.
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amother
  NeonPink  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:45 pm
Furniture $30K
Jewelry $20K /Silver $10K
Wedding hall $15K
Linens and housewares $8K
Appliances $5K
Sheitel/ shtreimel $6K
Shtufeer $5K
Flowers $5K
Music and singer $5K
Photographer and Badchan $5K
Kallah gown $2-5K
Mother of bride and sis of bride dresses $4-10K
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amother
  NeonPink  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:45 pm
amother Offwhite wrote:
Why?


Because they make more balebatish than other chasidusin
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amother
  Amaryllis  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:48 pm
amother Slategray wrote:
Actually she is correct unfortunatly. A family member is marrying off a child, bare bones wedding (by chassidish standard) and he told me it is costing home 100k. Insanity


Yes many people are and businesses are flaunting adds in our faces but there are still many people totally under $55,000 including wedding night apartment and all
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amother
  Amaryllis


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 5:50 pm
amother Offwhite wrote:
Why?


Because they need to be very balabatish and have a lot of social pressures to keep up with the joneses. Local stores and vendors feed into this mentality and do very well because of it
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