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amother
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Post Mon, Nov 27 2023, 10:34 pm
giftedmom wrote:
She told me this specifically in regards to leaving a baby for a few days. Obviously no one would do it specifically for this reason but it doesn’t have to be traumatic in an overall healthy relationship.

It sounds like she was trying to make you feel better about it. It’s best for baby to be with their mother, assuming their mother is loving and capable.
Unless there was a critical reason to leave the baby it’s never in babies interest for this to happen.
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amother
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Post Mon, Nov 27 2023, 10:36 pm
amother DarkGray wrote:
You want me to name where I've seen the effects? Of course I'm not going to do that. It would only upset people, many who may not feel they have an alternative.


You don't have to say a specific community. I'm wondering what the effects you saw were that you were able to directly see was the result of kids going to babysitters.
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amother
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Post Tue, Nov 28 2023, 2:42 pm
amother Indigo wrote:
Sending a 6 week old baby to a babysitter is way worse than staying home with siblings and grandma.
If babies have separation anxiety, how does anyone send to a babysitter under 2?
Do we have a traumatized generation?
even if the trauma is not long lasting, what about the present while the child is separated from mother and left with a babysitter?
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amother
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Post Tue, Nov 28 2023, 2:43 pm
#BestBubby wrote:
Are you a SAHM?

Because sending babies for many hours to babysitter is much worse.
I agree!!
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