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Ruchel
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Fri, Mar 17 2017, 12:22 pm
This year the cheder decided kids need to sell tombola tickets. I let dd10 do it around (not interested in being told to change, just clearing this out) and I've discovered that she has sold including to non jews LOL. I imagine if they end up with a rav Chakh portrait or a wig wash
That said I'd have no problem saying no to a child.
What I wouldn't let, is ringing at night or morning etc.
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PinkFridge
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Fri, Mar 17 2017, 1:19 pm
yksraya wrote: | In this post of hers, that is what I find disrespectful.
But in her original post, she mocked my entire post, not just disagreed with it. |
Maybe she should have put a smiley after "wake the baby!" Because I think she was tongue in cheek with that line.
I realize you are very passionate about this, and you're not the only one. I think I'm going to step back.
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yksraya
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Fri, Mar 17 2017, 1:46 pm
PinkFridge wrote: | Maybe she should have put a smiley after "wake the baby!" Because I think she was tongue in cheek with that line.
I realize you are very passionate about this, and you're not the only one. I think I'm going to step back. |
I feel like her attitude is "who cares if your baby sleeps or if you are busy or if you opened the door that day to 30 boys already, I can send my kids, I'll have sone peace and quiet for the 30 min they will be out collecting" and disguises it as chinuch. Maybe I read too much between the lines, and you've still got your innocence intact thus see it in a different light.
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PinkFridge
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Fri, Mar 17 2017, 1:49 pm
yksraya wrote: | I feel like her attitude is "who cares if your baby sleeps or if you are busy or if you opened the door that day to 30 boys already, I can send my kids, I'll have sone peace and quiet for the 30 min they will be out collecting" and disguises it as chinuch. Maybe I read too much between the lines, and you've still got your innocence intact thus see it in a different light. |
We know I've got my innocence, maybe to the point of head in the sand
Where I live, I don't get that level of collectors, kid or adult, so I do need to put myself in the shoes of others who do. I really haven't experienced the kind of abuse some people here have.
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33055
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Fri, Mar 17 2017, 2:03 pm
I was told by one mother on a very dense block that she gives a nickel or a dime if they are under ten; ten and above get a quarter. She says gets less traffic than her neighbors, and it gets them to stop.
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