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amother
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 Mon, Sep 18 2023, 6:10 pm
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Do I need to send flowers or anything to the mechutonim overseas for the upcoming aufruf?
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amother
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Mon, Sep 18 2023, 6:17 pm
My Mechutanim sent a fancy cake.
My other ones a big fruit platter.
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amother
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Mon, Sep 18 2023, 6:17 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | Do I need to send flowers or anything to the mechutonim overseas for the upcoming aufruf? |
Do you NEED to? No.
Is it customary in your community? 
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amother
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Mon, Sep 18 2023, 6:33 pm
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Don’t need to. Always classy to do so. Less important what it is.
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amother
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Mon, Sep 18 2023, 6:35 pm
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Flowers or cake platter, chocolates
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amother
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Mon, Sep 18 2023, 6:39 pm
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Yes you do. Flowers or chocolates are always nice.
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amother
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Mon, Sep 18 2023, 7:44 pm
Thanks for replying .
How much would I need to spend?
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amother
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Mon, Sep 18 2023, 9:25 pm
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I sent a nice candy platter, cause I knew they wouid enjoy it but definitely send something
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Gt
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Mon, Sep 18 2023, 9:38 pm
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Agreed. Send something. Can you find out what is customary in their community if they live far away ?
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amother
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Mon, Sep 18 2023, 10:04 pm
Definitely send something.
It’s very hard to tell you what to spend. There are so many different types of people here from all over.
Try to find someone to speak to where your new machatonim live. Sometimes the shadchan can help. You can also ask the person you order from. I had to send a gift to a city I’m not familiar with and the woman I called was helpful and explained what amount would give me something very small and basic and how much was extravagant.
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amother
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Tue, Sep 19 2023, 2:36 am
I don't know where your mechutonim live, but most places have someone who makes platters or other gifts. You can order from them and ask what is usual. Or if you know someone else who lives there, you can ask them to buy something or what is appropriate.
But yes it is a nice gesture to send something.
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