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mammala120
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 Fri, Nov 24 2023, 2:57 pm
And he just arrived. With lots of perfume on himself. I have small house. He will sleep In living room couch. My entire house smell like cologne/perfume. The problem is…I am getting allergy symptoms to it. Hard to breathe, headache, anxiety, throat burning. My dh cannot smell due to covid damage. So he cannot sympathize
Shabbat is I one hour.
What should I do?
I prepared for his visit for two weeks. Gladly invited him myself.
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Blessing1
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Fri, Nov 24 2023, 2:58 pm
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You or DH should tell him that you're allergic to fumes & if he can please shower & not use cologne over shabbos.
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theoretical62
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Fri, Nov 24 2023, 3:01 pm
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I agree with poster above. You can be apologetic but say what she said and im sure both of you will have a much better shabbos
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NechaMom
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Fri, Nov 24 2023, 3:01 pm
| Blessing1 wrote: | | You or DH should tell him that you're allergic to fumes & if he can please shower & not use cologne over shabbos. |
This. It’s really nothing personal. You literally have physical symptoms. Say it in a nice way.
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ImmaBubby
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Sat, Nov 25 2023, 9:59 pm
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You would certainly respect any allergies that he told you about. People can be clueless about non- food allergies and I’m sure he wouldn’t want to cause any discomfort.
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