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amother
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Post Sun, Dec 03 2023, 5:02 pm
If you are a parent of a SN child who does this or therapist who works with this population, is there a short phrase to say when a child is too “touchy”? I am looking for a kind way to tell a child to keep their hands to themselves and not touch adults/children around them. Thank you!
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amother
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Post Sun, Dec 03 2023, 5:12 pm
Depends on the special needs. My son has asd and we have a "code" word for him. We discussed it with him and picked it together and when I say it it is a reminder for him.
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amother
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Post Sun, Dec 03 2023, 5:13 pm
Usually we teach children about personal space, and a personal space bubble. So if I wanted to remind someone I would say "please be careful about staying in your own space bubble." Also, fidget toys can be very helpful for kids who are tactile seeking.
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cuties' mom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Dec 03 2023, 7:14 pm
I tell ds “personal space” when he tries to hug a stranger or do inappropriate touch. I tell him “let go” when he pulls hair.
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amother
Narcissus


 

Post Sun, Dec 03 2023, 7:22 pm
Hands to self
Or
Hands down
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imasinger




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Dec 03 2023, 7:24 pm
"Space bubble" is good.

Also, try to note when it's happening, and look what was going on earlier that might have led to sensory seeking behavior. Choosing when and how you can provide sensory enrichment is really helpful. Maybe some time on a swing, or with some form of deep pressure, can help calm before there is an inappropriate action?
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amother
Oldlace


 

Post Sun, Dec 03 2023, 7:32 pm
We say 'quiet hands'
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Arep




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Dec 03 2023, 10:18 pm
SN teenage acquaintance was taught about "personal space"
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amother
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Post Sun, Dec 03 2023, 10:30 pm
As a teacher we used different ones depending on the kid, quiet hands, hands to self, no touch, space...
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amother
Sunflower


 

Post Sun, Dec 03 2023, 10:31 pm
Keep hands on our own bodies.
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amother
Marigold


 

Post Sun, Dec 03 2023, 10:42 pm
amother Oldlace wrote:
We say 'quiet hands'


This as a code word
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