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Lani8753567
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Thu, May 02 2024, 6:47 pm
A friend of mine put me down as a reference on her resume for a job in the child care field.
Because there are children involved, I feel obligated to give honest answers.
(Not very complimentary)
Is that lashon hora?
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BrachaVHatzlocha
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Thu, May 02 2024, 6:51 pm
Lani8753567 wrote: | A friend of mine put me down as a reference on her resume for a job in the child care field.
Because there are children involved, I feel obligated to give honest answers.
(Not very complimentary)
Is that lashon hora? |
Speak to a rav
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eduardo
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Thu, May 02 2024, 7:03 pm
I would tell her that you appreciate her thinking of you, but at this time you aren’t able to be a reference (life too hectic, can’t be busy with calls etc)
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mummiedearest
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Thu, May 02 2024, 8:17 pm
AFAIK, if it is for someone else’s protection, you can give warning. The listener is obligated to take precautions but not actually believe the report. I’d she’s a danger to children and you have the opportunity to prevent problems, I wouldn’t hesitate to tell.
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Fri, May 03 2024, 1:53 pm
you could be sued also. legally all you have to say is the dates she worked
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