Note to self ;) | Imamother

amother

Tue, May 07 2024, 12:15 am

Just leave the load of laundry on your dh bed and it will get hung up when he wants his bed to go to sleep. #currently tested and proven true as I'm typing this up. LOL

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Navy

Tue, May 07 2024, 12:15 am

Mine takes the pile and relocates it but not to the closet. Wink

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Azalea

Tue, May 07 2024, 12:18 am

If there's laundry on my bed, I transfer it elsewhere for the night....

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Holly

Tue, May 07 2024, 12:19 am

Nope. My husband dumps it on the dresser and there it remains until I put it away

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Coffee

Tue, May 07 2024, 12:19 am

amother Azalea wrote:

If there's laundry on my bed, I transfer it elsewhere for the night....

I sleep with it on the side TMI

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Oak

Tue, May 07 2024, 1:35 am

Ends up on the couch and then he sits onto it Banging head

I just laugh cuz how masculine can you get??

Roots

Tue, May 07 2024, 4:07 am

lol he pushes it to the side and snuggles in with yours truly...

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Mintgreen

Tue, May 07 2024, 4:18 pm

The pattern seems to be that most dhs will simply take the pile of laundry and stick it somewhere else. OP, consider yourself blessed that your dh is so aware.

Busybee5

Tue, May 07 2024, 4:31 pm

amother OP wrote:

Just leave the load of laundry on your dh bed and it will get hung up when he wants his bed to go to sleep. #currently tested and proven true as I'm typing this up. LOL

Haha I've been doing this since forever, and BH it works here as well!
He usually does it earlier, like 6ish when he's helping me with baths etc anyway in preparation for his bed to be clear. But really he just wants to help me out. BH

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Impatiens

Tue, May 07 2024, 4:56 pm

amother Papayawhip wrote:

Dh x even realize it's there

Same. And then it accidentally get knocked to the floor half the time because he didn't realize it was there. And then he wonders why he can't find his clean laundry.

Tao

Tue, May 07 2024, 4:59 pm

Made me laugh! Lol. I love him but yeah, if I dumped the laundry on his bed he would totally just dump the pile on the floor LOL

He'd do other stuff like wash the dishes or pack away the toys if I asked him but he's never folded a load of laundry

Busybee5

Tue, May 07 2024, 5:00 pm

Tao wrote:

Made me laugh! Lol. I love him but yeah, if I dumped the laundry on his bed he would totally just dump the pile on the floor LOL

He'd do other stuff like wash the dishes or pack away the toys if I asked him but he's never folded a load of laundry

And mine doesn't touch the dishes. They all have their preferences! As if we get to chose 😆 he'll also help me prepare them lunches for school.

amother

Wine

Tue, May 07 2024, 5:42 pm

I'm liking this thread but just thinking imagine op would have set a more serious tone and had it under "serious problems in a marriage" how many posters would chime in "divorce", "therapy ", " marriage counselling today!"

naturalmom5

Tue, May 07 2024, 5:44 pm

my husband would just brow beat me why I didnt just put it away or ask him to directly

Leaving it on bed is passive agressive

Tzutzie

Tue, May 07 2024, 5:45 pm

Na. He'll just sleep on top of everthing....
Tried and tested. And he didn't have a clue!
I move it to the side if I'm too tired. Bh that my bed is big enough for me and the laundry!

Busybee5

Tue, May 07 2024, 6:20 pm

naturalmom5 wrote:

my husband would just brow beat me why I didnt just put it away or ask him to directly

Leaving it on bed is passive agressive

His bed is the nearest to the washing machine and we have no spare bedrooms. We have spare beds but they're in my kids rooms. So, no it's not passive aggressive! It's what works for us. I also fold it most of the time, but on his bed. He doesn't mind, he's usually out in work still when I do it. It's if I don't manage, and he sees it's still there , then he'll do it to help me out.

happy chick

Tue, May 07 2024, 6:42 pm

For everyone saying he has no clue, he never did, he never would, etc. I once had an emergency where I was with a child in the hospital for a few days. And guess what? All the no clues, he never did, he never would ended up getting done. He asked the kids for help, but he managed it all, bh. I think they teach them in chosson classes to play dumb. Lol