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My son has school on shushan purim



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amother


 

Post Tue, Mar 03 2015, 2:18 pm
It's optional. However it's our day to do carpool and I wasn't going to send my ds. The other parents are calling and asking if we r sending. Do u think it's right if we don't do it. It technically is our turn it's just that school is optional. They r telling me they would send their son if they dad a ride both ways,but wouldn't send if they had to pick up or drop off
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lfab




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Mar 03 2015, 2:33 pm
I wish my kids had school that day! To answer your question no I don't think you need to send. If they want to send their child they can drop off/pick up on their own and you would resume normal carpool rotation on the next regular school day. What would they do if your child was sick on your carpool day and you were not sending him to school? Would you still be expected to do carpool that day? (If that is the case then I would say you still should do carpool.)
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greenfire




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Mar 03 2015, 2:47 pm
I think it's stupid to have optional days

but don't send him & don't do carpool - what would be the point if there will be no break
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Mimisinger




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Mar 03 2015, 5:21 pm
Carpool etiquette by us is that if you skip a day, you make it up. I wouldn't do carpool, but I would pay back the people doing carpool for "my" day.
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harriet




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Mar 03 2015, 5:28 pm
lfab wrote:
I wish my kids had school that day! To answer your question no I don't think you need to send. If they want to send their child they can drop off/pick up on their own and you would resume normal carpool rotation on the next regular school day. What would they do if your child was sick on your carpool day and you were not sending him to school? Would you still be expected to do carpool that day? (If that is the case then I would say you still should do carpool.)


I live in a carpool town and of course if your child is sick or otherwise not going to school you are still responsible for that day!
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MiracleMama




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Mar 03 2015, 5:35 pm
Can you just swap days with someone else?
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animeme




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Mar 03 2015, 6:13 pm
We also say you are responsible for days when you don't send your child (you can switch to do that). But, optional days are different. On those, everyone's for themselves and there aren't obligations.
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