Kissing child on lips

amother

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Thu, Sep 24 2015, 2:13 pm

I'm posting here too, cuz I don't know where to post that will get reads ...

We live oot. My 3 year old daughter goes to school that has one jewish teacher and one non jewish teacher in the classroom.
My friend (whose son is in my daughters class) just called me to say she was kissing her baby multiple times this morning in bed and her 3 year old son said "that's what Morah G does every day to Leah."
My friend said "show me, what does morah g do?" Her son held the baby's face and began kissing the baby on the lips multiple times. (My friend had NOT been kissing her baby on the lips.) She asked him, "Does morah G do that to you?" He said, "sometimes, but she always does it to Leah"

I had told the jewish teacher that I was creeped out by this other teacher at the very beginning of the year and told her that I didn't allow this teacher to touch my child. A lot of good that did.
(The teacher always came across as creepy but I was told that she was being replaced as soon as someone else was found. )

Stupid me, sent my daughter to school for this.

I will not be sending her back until this teacher is out.
I have in the past kissed her on her lips a few time. (Is that weird? I am her mother... and she wasn't even three yet. Trust me, I won't ever be doing that again!) But then at one point she didn't like it and turned her face away, so I haven't done it since. Than 2 weeks ago, I'm sitting on the couch and she climbs onto my lap, holds my cheeks, and began kissing me on the lips multiple times. I was confused how she came to do that (My husband and I are private) but figured she remembered how I had kissed her months before. Later that day, she did it again. And the next day she did it again. At that point I told her "we kiss on cheeks, not on lips" And she did try again after that, but I didn't allow it and repeated the refrain

What in the world am I supposed to do now . Should I talk to her about it? If so what should I say? I don't think she felt abused.... and I don't want to create feelings of confusion for her.