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Maya
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 Mon, Nov 16 2015, 6:47 pm
| Shuly wrote: | | I've never heard of the chosson not doing the badeken. Is that common? |
I hadn't heard of it until it happened to me. I don't think it's very common.
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cnc
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 6:49 pm
| observer wrote: | | Me neither. I think it must be a chassidish way. |
It's definitions not the standard chassidish way. It may be one specific chassidus or a family minhag.
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Maya
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 6:54 pm
| cnc wrote: | | It's definitions not the standard chassidish way. It may be one specific chassidus or a family minhag. |
Yes I think certain Chassidish groups.
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MGmom
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 7:03 pm
| Maya wrote: | | Yes I think certain Chassidish groups. |
Think skver doesn't come in. Most chassidish ppl do have the chossen badek
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RedCurls
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 7:20 pm
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I don't remember. BUT my dh sent a love letter to me to read during the Kabbalas panim which was so him and so sweet and wonderful and thoughtful.
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amother
Babyblue
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 7:28 pm
I'm Satmar.
My husband came in, badeked me but didn't say anything. Hearing for the 1st time that there is such a thing. And now I'm jealous.
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naturalmom5
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 7:29 pm
@#$& I got to pee
Couldn't stop laughing
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fbc
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 7:34 pm
So interesting to read! My husband (who was technically not yet my husband  ) came in, his face lit up and he said "you look beautiful!" then he badeked me and I handed him the long letter I wrote to him to read before chuppah. Well, he didn't have time so he ended up reading it in the yichud room.
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PinkFridge
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 7:42 pm
| amother wrote: | I'm Satmar.
My husband came in, badeked me but didn't say anything. Hearing for the 1st time that there is such a thing. And now I'm jealous. |
Don't be jealous. You have the rest of your lives together.
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LiLIsraeli
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 7:49 pm
I think we said mazel tov to each other.
ETA: Really nothing major. Nothing to be jealous about.
I was at a wedding where the chosson brought the kallah a rose at the badeken and they said "I love you" to each other with sappy looks on their faces. It was sweet, but I felt it should have been saved for the yichud room.
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amother
Sapphire
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 8:12 pm
| amother wrote: | I'm Satmar.
My husband came in, badeked me but didn't say anything. Hearing for the 1st time that there is such a thing. And now I'm jealous. |
Don't be jealous!
My husband didn't either say anything other than the requisite pasuk. But from the look on his face I could tell he loved me and was super happy and excited.
Thousands of "I love you's" later, I am quite ok with the fact that he didn't say anything then- it doesn't impact our relationship at all
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pause
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 8:20 pm
| observer wrote: | | Me neither. I think it must be a chassidish way. | Only certain chassidusen.
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amother
Cobalt
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 8:24 pm
| MGmom wrote: | Think skver doesn't come in. Most chassidish ppl do h
ave the chossen badek |
Skver the chosson does. The chosson not coming to badek is a sanzer minhug. The chasidus bobov who's origin is sanz the chassonim don't badek.
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amother
Maroon
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 8:36 pm
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I really don't think that's any of your business. Some things said between two people should remain between those two people, not for public consumption. I would be furious if I thought my dh shared with anyone, even an anonymous online anyone, intimate things I said to him, and by intimate I mean in the true sense of the word, which means "closeness" and not a euphemism for s*xx. I notice that you, the OP, didn't share your intimate moment with the rest of us. I don't think that's an accident. What are you, some kind of romance Dementor who survives by sucking up other people's private words of love? Gross.
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smss
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 9:06 pm
Clueless here.
What is the "requisite pasuk"?
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mom2dkay
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 9:15 pm
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Didn't know chosson takes the kallah to the chuppa
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amother
Scarlet
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 9:25 pm
| observer wrote: | | Me neither. I think it must be a chassidish way. |
Maybe some type of minhag. All chassidish weddings I attend, chosson badeks the kallah.
There is an inyan that the choson personally come badek the kallah and look at her as to sort of make sure it's the right girl he's about to marry...
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WhatFor
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 9:31 pm
| naturalmom5 wrote: | @#$& I got to pee
Couldn't stop laughing | 
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checkbefore
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Mon, Nov 16 2015, 9:36 pm
The chosson doesn't usually badek in Bobov.
When my mother heard about it before she married a bobover, she told him he better badek her, or she will get up and leave. He badekd her.
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