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amother
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 Sun, Nov 12 2023, 3:00 pm
If you work in a frum place and your boss (male) has a baby, does your husband go to the bris with you?
Assuming that your husbands job is flexible so missing isn't an issue.
Is it the right thing for him to go?
Also including that there aren't any other female coworkers for me to be with.
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amother
Alyssum
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 3:01 pm
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Read it wrong. No he doesn’t have to go
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amother
Lightpink
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 3:01 pm
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I would say no unless your husband has a relationship with your boss
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amother
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 3:02 pm
| amother Alyssum wrote: | | Yes generally. Did he send out the details of the bris to the office? |
No details sent yet but I know he will. It's a small company so I think he'll just text us.
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amother
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 3:02 pm
| amother Lightpink wrote: | | I would say no unless your husband has a relationship with your boss |
They've never met, but I schmooze with my boss so he knows about DH's existence and personality, etc.
I've met boss' wife in the office before.
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happy chick
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 3:17 pm
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If hes a nice boss and you have a good relationship (obviously referring to professional relationship), then it's nice for your husband to go.
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amother
Yarrow
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 3:18 pm
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notshanarishona
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 4:18 pm
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Not unless he wants to, it’s your boss not his
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amother
Bluebonnet
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 4:21 pm
No
Unless he wants to or knows him
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amother
Rainbow
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 4:24 pm
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My husband would. I have a great job and my husband is very grateful for how I’m treated. He went to be Menachem Avel with me when that came up.
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amother
Forestgreen
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 4:24 pm
I wouldn't go to a bris. My mother's employees never came to hers.
I couldn't make to a bar mitzvah, so I sent dh and he introduced himself. I later went to the weddings and dh stayed home with my kids.
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amother
Vanilla
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 6:57 pm
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For a co-worker, no. For a boss, yes to show Hakaras hatov.
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amother
Glitter
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Sun, Nov 12 2023, 7:39 pm
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I wouldn't go myself either. I've gone to weddings but I bris is too intimate/ cozy/ private for my taste.
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