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FranticFrummie




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Oct 07 2013, 5:01 pm
*trying to say this as gently as possible*

OP, it sounds to me like you have a lot of anxiety about what other people might say about you or to you. You might want to look into getting some help with that.

If you don't learn how to handle those feelings, you could develop agoraphobia, and end up paralyzed with fear at the thought of leaving your home.

Next thing you know, YOU could end up being a bitter, crazy woman (G-d forbid).

Please find someone who can help you work through your feelings and fears.
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enneamom




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Oct 07 2013, 7:24 pm
FranticFrummie, I think you got it right on the mark.

OP, you sound like a lovely person who is sensitive to others, but it seems that sensitivity may go both ways and cause you to care a little too much about what other people think and say. Your life could be so much better if you follow FranticFrummie's advice.
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forever21




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Oct 07 2013, 7:38 pm
OP, im confused about the part you said about not going to other peoples home bec most people have bad manners. I believe another poster mentioned this also but didnt get a response from you: Do people only have bad manners when you go to their house and therefore you avoid going to their homes? Or in general? Perhaps I misunderstood your comment. It was a bit confusing.
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