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amother
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 Mon, Jul 24 2023, 10:16 pm
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Looking for ideas what dh and I can do as a day out tomorrow while nidda. Would travel an hour or so from. Lakewood. Ty!
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amother
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 8:03 am
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Anyone have ideas for me?
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fleetwood
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 8:20 am
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Why can't you do what you normally do...what's the difference if you're nidda
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amother
Chambray
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 10:45 am
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Not supposed to do pleasure trips while niddah.
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NechaMom
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 10:55 am
Also not during the 9 days.
Stay home and argue! 🤷‍♀️
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amother
Birch
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 10:56 am
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amother
NeonPink
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 11:00 am
I don’t get where this comes from
The whole point of nida is to connect emotionally not physically
No one said you can’t enjoy each others company and do something nice
Please don’t live this way you are making it so hard on yourself for no reason
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amother
Chambray
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 11:06 am
No, you're not. See a woman's guide to the laws of niddah, chapter 6, harchakos.
Intro: Since travel together for pleasure causes closeness and affection, halacha placed limitations upon the manner in which a couple may travel while she is a niddah. Page 91
Definition of a pleasure trip: in defining a pleasure trip, Poskim explain that if there is any purpose to the travel, whether for business or simply to visit or to attend a wedding, it is not called a pleasure trip.
OP should ask her Rav.
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amother
Lemonchiffon
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 11:13 am
Biking
Beach
Go out to eat
Pottery
Bell Works
Picnic
Virtual reality
Arcades
Bowling
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amother
NeonPink
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 11:21 am
| amother Chambray wrote: | No, you're not. See a woman's guide to the laws of niddah, chapter 6, harchakos.
Intro: Since travel together for pleasure causes closeness and affection, halacha placed limitations upon the manner in which a couple may travel while she is a niddah. Page 91
Definition of a pleasure trip: in defining a pleasure trip, Poskim explain that if there is any purpose to the travel, whether for business or simply to visit or to attend a wedding, it is not called a pleasure trip.
OP should ask her Rav. |
Well then enjoy staring at the four walls all day!
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amother
Lemonchiffon
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 11:23 am
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LOL. I guess I am a [gentile]. We do many fun things during niddah. And yes, we are very yeshivish. Please do not make things up! Ask your LOR!!!
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amother
Gladiolus
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 11:24 am
| amother Chambray wrote: | No, you're not. See a woman's guide to the laws of niddah, chapter 6, harchakos.
Intro: Since travel together for pleasure causes closeness and affection, halacha placed limitations upon the manner in which a couple may travel while she is a niddah. Page 91
Definition of a pleasure trip: in defining a pleasure trip, Poskim explain that if there is any purpose to the travel, whether for business or simply to visit or to attend a wedding, it is not called a pleasure trip.
OP should ask her Rav. |
I dont think a day outing even an hour away is considered a trip. I think this means don’t go away together somewhere where you’re like sleeping in a hotel…..
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HonesttoGod
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 11:42 am
Pleasure trips in terms of niddah = romantic overnight resort.
Beach vacation etc etc.
Not a hike or a day at the zoo!
Niddha doesn’t mean you can’t look or talk to your husband it means don’t put yourself into a position that would be zxual such as a mentioned above or a spa day.
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amother
DarkYellow
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 12:02 pm
Bellworks
Top Golf
Boardwalk
Bowling
Color Me Mine
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amother
Amaranthus
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Tue, Jul 25 2023, 4:10 pm
| HonesttoGod wrote: | Pleasure trips in terms of niddah = romantic overnight resort.
Beach vacation etc etc.
Not a hike or a day at the zoo!
Niddha doesn’t mean you can’t look or talk to your husband it means don’t put yourself into a position that would be zxual such as a mentioned above or a spa day. |
The way I was taught is that you can go places if it's to a specific destination ie to bowling alley, to museum...
You can't go on a trip where the actual trip is the travel- ie ferry, boat, walk (without a destination), boardwalk, biking (without a destination), ride in safari, trail
You need to be heading somewhere
If going on a simple walk you can "make up a destination" and the fo there and back or "let's go to x store/see the tree outside Bina's house"
Chabad btw
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