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amother
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Sun, May 10 2015, 12:46 am
If someone got engaged then it was broken, does the shadchan need to be paid shadchanus? When do people usually pay the shadchan, at the wedding? If they paid before, does the shadchan need to pay it back?
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agreer
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Sun, May 10 2015, 7:44 am
MOST people pay shadchan at vort. As far as I know, if the engagement is broken, the money is not returned.
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amother
Papaya
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Sun, May 10 2015, 4:40 pm
afaik people pay at/around the wedding date for this reason (?)
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amother
Smokey
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Sun, May 10 2015, 9:04 pm
I know two people who had broken engagements, and both times the shadchan returned the money. (two different shadchanim).
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amother
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Sun, May 10 2015, 9:09 pm
Afaik, Batei Din hold that unless the Shadchan clearly lied, and this led to the Shidduch falling apart, they did their work and money doesn't have to be returned.
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amother
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Sun, May 10 2015, 9:16 pm
My parents were told to pay the shadchan at the wedding. I guess if an engagement gets broken off then they would ask a shayla. If a shadchan had already been paid, then I would guess the shadchan would ask a shayla.
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