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Smiley
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 Thu, Jan 07 2010, 5:02 pm
I'm just wondering what is expected of me as a daughter, for the first yahrtzeit of my grandomother. Am I supposed to bye a cake, gift or something like that for the shiur?
Thank you.
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chocolate moose
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Mon, Jan 11 2010, 4:21 pm
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I don't think anything, for a grandparent.
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bubby
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Mon, Jan 11 2010, 5:03 pm
Call/visit your parent. Talk about grandma. If parent isn't frum, have someone say Kaddish & give Tzedaka in her zchus.
My kids call me & my mother on my father's yartzheit. If I'm in UK I go to his Kever (I go every time I am in the country) & if not, I visit the Ohel. If you can go, it would be nice to visit her kever.
That's about it. It's not a parent's yartzheit so you aren't mechoyev to do anything.
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mommalah
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Mon, Jan 11 2010, 8:34 pm
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Is there anything required of a sibling on the first yahrzeit?
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greenfire
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Mon, Jan 11 2010, 8:36 pm
what could be expected ? one must do what they feel ... if it were me I would call my parent, light a candle for the grandparent and pray 
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mommalah
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Mon, Jan 11 2010, 8:37 pm
| greenfire wrote: | | what could be expected ? one must do what they feel ... if it were me I would call my parent, light a candle for the grandparent and pray |
I think she was asking halachically.
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Mini Cookie
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Mon, Jan 11 2010, 9:30 pm
just an idea...I complied a few nice writings, thoughts, anecdotes & pic from the nifteres(not grandma, a close family member  ) & mailed it out to all relatives. It becomes a very special keepsake.
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