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What are the top Ten ways to ruin a shidduch!?
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Ruchel




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Jul 21 2006, 4:13 am
I brought my parents along for the first date, is that considered a deal breaker? Twisted Evil
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mimsy7420




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Jul 21 2006, 10:31 am
Well...
Yes.
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anon




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Jul 21 2006, 10:47 am
My friend went out with a real winner...

They were on a date, and this was one of their many disturbing conversations:

Guy: Do you want a drink?
Friend: Sure, thanx!
Guy: OK, go get one.
Friend: Oh...ummm....ok... *friend starts to walk towards the drinks*
Guy: Aren't you going to ask me if I also want one?

shock
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chen




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Jul 21 2006, 11:06 am
anon wrote:
Guy: Aren't you going to ask me if I also want one?

shock


Yikes!
In retrospect, such guys are doing you a favor by showing their true colors right off the bat rather than putting on a good show just long enough for you to say "I do". (so to speak)
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amother


 

Post Fri, Jul 21 2006, 12:26 pm
I have a friend who, on a shidduch, after sitting down with drinks, the guy says "who should pay for the drinks?", so she said "How about I pay for mine and you pay for yours" which they did. After paying he said "so where do you want to go next?" Her response " I'll go to my house and you go to yours". Tongue Out
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Ruchel




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, Jul 22 2006, 6:56 pm
excellent, amother!!



Quote:
Well...
Yes.


LOL then I’m lucky dh is very family oriented !
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amother


 

Post Wed, Jul 26 2006, 6:17 pm
He said to me " you are TOO pretty!
I cant marry you!
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amother


 

Post Fri, Sep 22 2006, 6:41 pm
He brought a sandwich on the date !


I married him !
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ny21




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Sep 22 2006, 6:43 pm
After he went bowling - and it came time to pay

he said he left his wallet at home .

this did not happen to me = but to someone I know.


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happymom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 24 2006, 7:55 pm
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willing to keep her mind open to MAYBE being frum he would marry her. Then he told me that his ideal wife would have many children which she must keep quiet and out of his way AT ALL TIMES.


shock lol what a crazy thing to say! although thank g-d he lets ppl know right away...
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withhumor




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 24 2006, 9:00 pm
just mention the word 'mental illness'
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Marion




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Sep 24 2006, 11:35 pm
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Tell her you have to be married by this Thursday in order to claim an inheritance


There was actually a movie like this...
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happyone




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 25 2006, 12:04 am
LOL
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chavamom




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 25 2006, 12:09 am
amother wrote:
anonymous because I'm really really embarassed:

I went out with a guy very much older than me ie: quite a bit more than 10yrs (I was VERY young). I was very naive and innocent (and now thinking back perhaps a little clueless) I asked him WHY he would want to go out and or marry someone so young at his age. Really I was just curious no bad feelings intended at all. Boy did he change the conversation quickly embarrassed

In my defense though, he had lied about his age, and so had everyone we asked about him. We figured out thay something was fishy and confronted the shadchan and found out the day I was supposed to go out with him. Guess it was a deal breaker on both sides.


Hmm - was this in Israel? We knew a guy who was serial offender in this matter and when he was was pushing 40 was still trying to get set up with the same 20 year-olds. I have to say though that when someone would ask dh or me, we told the truth.
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Mirabelle




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 25 2006, 9:21 am
I once went out with someone who spent the whole first date telling me how he had trouble making friends all through school. I don't know why he was telling me this, but lets just say it was a total deal breaker.
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timeout




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 25 2006, 9:25 am
My DH had a Basho with a girl who spent two hours talking about R' Paysach Krohn my husband had to make an excuse to get out before it was over.
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aussiegal




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 25 2006, 2:39 pm
- one guy on two consecutive dates turned the wrong way on a one-way street in manhattan!!!

- one guy said "yeh - girls only like to eat salads'. that scared me off, coz I sure dont get full from just eating salads!!! (obviously that wasnt the deal breaker, but it sure helped..)
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ny21




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Sep 07 2007, 1:46 pm
a LOL

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justanothermother




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Sep 07 2007, 4:53 pm
I went out with this guy to eat. After the meal, he wouldn't leave. I kept saying "shouldn't we be going" and "are you planning on ordering something else", but no dice. He was not going. At one point I got my purse and stood up. He kept talking. They started vacuuming the restaurant and turned off the lights. I kept saying, "we should go now" and he answered "we paid for the meal, we can sit here as long as we want." Only after I finally said "you stay here then, I'm calling a taxi" he jumped up and said "why would you do that?"
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amother


 

Post Sat, Sep 08 2007, 11:31 pm
on the date he too out a news paper to read and I said
I will wait in the car for you
----------------------------------
I was set up on a blind date with a obese guy and we went to
a comedy club. the comedian pointed to our table and said to me
"if I sat any further (away from my date )

I woul d be at the next table.
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