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greenfire
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Sun, Jul 08 2007, 8:27 am
hey believe it or not, women can be dangerous too - so just be careful either way ... these stories are always disheartening ... I myself give rides to people often enough - I like to think however that I have a good perception of people and am careful with whom and for why ...
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amother
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Sun, Jul 08 2007, 8:33 am
amother wrote: | letsbehonest wrote: |
Supposedly, many Wiliamasburg women do this to get to BP.
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Supposedly? Do you know this for 100%? I don't appreciate it when people just go assuming because this lady was from williamsburg. | Three possibilities, they're right or they're wrong or they're right sometimes :
http://abclocal.go.com/wabc/st.....57141
Quote: | There are Hasidic communities in close proximity to each other, one is Williamsburg and another in Borough Park. People in the Hasidic communities travel back and forth on a daily basis. And to do that, they often catch rides with Hasidic strangers. It's a practice they've been using for nearly four decades without a problem. Until now. |
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Mimisinger
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Sun, Jul 08 2007, 8:37 am
I don't know...I was always taught to not talk to strangers, how much more, not to get into their car?!??!?! What about with children? Do they hitchhike with children? I know in Israel we tremped a lot. In the beginning it was very scary and it soon became the norm. But, there have been bad situations re. tremping. My dh and I once got into an Arab's car....v. scary b/c he came to the Jewish place to tremp instead of the Arab part, needless to say, we got out quickly!
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sarahd
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Sun, Jul 08 2007, 11:02 am
People in Williamsburg definitely do hitch rides to BP. I have done it myself and have also given rides to people. However, I would never offer a ride to a man unless I had a man with me, nor would I take a ride alone with a man. The story does sound a bit funny - but the woman may have just been naive.
A friend of mine was waiting for the bus to get to her kallah classes and was offered a ride by a "frum" man. She accepted and the man tried to assault her. She was lucky and escaped the car at a red light. She was 18 and should have known better....but she was also naive.
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CAYA
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Wed, Jul 11 2007, 8:46 am
It must be she's naive and didn't realize she's doing something very wrong.
It's a common thing in williamsburg and b that when you see someone waiting for the bus you stop to ask if wanna hitch, she saw this real chaisdishe looking man and didnt dream.........
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faigie
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Wed, Jul 11 2007, 10:34 am
honestly, I dont get it.. I dont know of a single frum lady who would get into a car with a guy. something just isnt right here. I feel like im missing some info.
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supermom
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Wed, Jul 11 2007, 12:54 pm
Firstly the woman is married.
Here in Israel people take rides from men or woman.
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sleepyhead
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Wed, Jul 11 2007, 3:53 pm
I think what was meant by "single" was "any" (not 'a lady who is not married')
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chen
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Mon, Jul 16 2007, 8:44 am
Cinderella wrote: |
Am, I the only one that is really disturbed by this woman hitchiking
Amother-There might be a little more to this story, because it seems rather odd that a Chasidishe woman got into a strange MAN'S car-Chasidish or not! |
I'm with you on both counts. Something fishy here. I know Chassidim hitchhike--dh has been accosted any number of times by men wanting rides, and I myslef have been petitioned by Chassidish ladies--but a woman getting into a car with a man, stranger or not? Huh-uh. Doesn't make sense unless she was in labor and the car was a hatzolohmobile.
and doesn't anyone teach their kids "don't get into a car with a stranger" any more? News Flash: there is no expiration date on this advice. It is at true at 26 or 56 or 76 as it is at 6.
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amother
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Fri, Jul 20 2007, 12:03 pm
Rumor has it, that the person who did this was found, he's a father of 5. I guess that's why everything is hush hush, must be someone people know.
very sad.
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CAYA
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Wed, Jul 25 2007, 8:47 am
I saw this women yesterday, her hand is in a cast, I pity her like crazy
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Mevater
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Wed, Jul 25 2007, 11:54 am
amother wrote: | Rumor has it, that the person who did this was found, he's a father of 5. I guess that's why everything is hush hush, must be someone people know.
very sad. | It would have made headlines in the non jewish Press!
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Mama Bear
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Wed, Jul 25 2007, 12:59 pm
Oy Caya you actually know her? wow.
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CAYA
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Thu, Jul 26 2007, 8:47 am
Mama Bear wrote: | Oy Caya you actually know her? wow. |
yups!
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ILOVELIFE
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Thu, Aug 02 2007, 11:22 pm
They released a sketch of the guy so I guess he wasn't found and that the father of 5 business is of those 64,000 rumors
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amother
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Sat, Aug 04 2007, 7:37 pm
I know this young lady. I just don't comprehend why she took a ride with a man. Only thing I can think of is in the sheltered community she lives in, lots of families do not bring newspapers into their homes. They do not own a radio. Interenet is a no-no. So they are for the most part not aware of what 'life' is about, and the dangers out there. They are not exposed to any of it. I mean, think about it, how do we know about the dangers? we hear about them on the radio, tv, read about them in the newspapers, etc. She grew up in a very loving family, it is beyond her wildest imaginations that a man can do such a thing; she doesn't even ever suspect a man can do this! In fact, I have heard that when the guy came to the back of the car to rape her, she naively thought he wanted to kill her!
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