I'm rude, judgmental, and dislike most people. Ask me a/thin

mommy3b2c

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 6:18 pm

oliveoil wrote:

a) hard to generalize, it's so individual

b) he's much more easygoing than I am, but he can relate to some of my irritations.

I bet you’d like me🤓

I totally get your dry, sarcastic humor.

Or maybe you’re not trying to be funny?

Either way, I always found your responses amusing and sometimes brilliantly on target.

I apologize, but I’m really starting to like you. I can’t help myself.

Simple1

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 6:43 pm

Would it bother you if people acted towards you - to quote your title - "rude or judgemental or dislike you? " Or are you immune to all of it?

oliveoil

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 7:33 pm

Simple1 wrote:

Would it bother you if people acted towards you - to quote your title - "rude or judgemental or dislike you? " Or are you immune to all of it?

This is a tough one. For the most part I genuinely don't care. I think I explained in an earlier answer that I don't expect or particularly want people to like me either.

But that doesn't mean I don't occasionally get offended by rudeness or judgmentalism from someone else. But I do always realize how hypocritical that is and give myself a good talking to when it happens.

oliveoil

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 7:34 pm

mommy3b2c wrote:

Haha! This has taken a turn I did not expect.

I am sometimes surprised by the people I end up likeing, or people who I think I'll like and I end up disliking. So you never know!

Cheiny

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 7:57 pm

oliveoil wrote:

Why the heck not join the melee?

Glad you have the self realization.

tachles

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 8:48 pm

Coffee Addict wrote:

I’m also relating to sensory issues. I’m very sensory, Combined with ocd, that makes it not a fun mixture! Very annoying on a day to day life.

I’m relating this because of your SN and my personal experience with sensory issues.
I think coffee exacerbates sensory issues since it’s a stimulant and that causes your senses to be more hyped up, better to get energy from good night sleep and healthy food and avoid sugar, msg, coffee and other caffeine products like tea and chocolate

A_Mother_First

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 11:19 pm

"I don't know if I would say proud, but it definitely doesn't bother me"

Hmm, this is going to get sensitive, please feel free to NOT answer if this is uncomfortable: Are you on the autism spectrum (as in high functioning / Aspergers)? Or have your been diagnosed with another disorder that may contribute to the personality qualities you had described?

oliveoil

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 11:24 pm

mommy3b2c wrote:

Another question:
How old are you?

And how old is your oldest kid?

I'm going to take a pass on this one, sorry.

oliveoil

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 11:25 pm

A_Mother_First wrote:

Nope & nope.

NovelConcept

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 11:31 pm

and this...

What do you say to the Baal Shem Tov's teaching that all failings we see in others are but reflections of our own shortcomings?

"and I find most people to be either irritating, stupid, or both."

oliveoil

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 11:33 pm

NovelConcept wrote:

Okay my turn:

Popeye or Bluto?

I do not know what either of those things are...

oliveoil

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 11:34 pm

NovelConcept wrote:

I've never understood it, tbh.

NovelConcept

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 11:38 pm

Well Oliveoil, I think your strongest middah is honesty. That is a great one to have.

But every middah is a double-edged sword.
We can use them for great things, to build up people and things, or to destroy -- both people and things.

I was the child of an Oliveoil.
Let me just say, she didn't use her middah very nicely. I'm no longer in contact with her due to the pain she's caused.

crust

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 11:50 pm

NovelConcept wrote:

Hugs...ouch....
You've got courage to post this with your sn.

Perhaps that's why you call yourself oliveoil, oliveoil? Bitter. Like olives.
I wonder.

Novel what would you want your mom should do if she ever wants to reconcile?

NovelConcept

Mon, Nov 05 2018, 11:52 pm

crust wrote:

Hugs...ouch....
You've got courage to post this with your sn.

Perhaps that's why you call yourself oliveoil, oliveoil?

Novel what would you want your mom should do if she ever wants to reconcile?

There is no reconciliation. There's no anger. I just don't need any rancid oil in my life.

oliveoil

Tue, Nov 06 2018, 12:01 am

crust wrote:

good quality olive oil is definitely not bitter! It's rich and wonderful and a small drizzle goes a long way.

[none of this has anything to do with why I chose my name]

crust

Tue, Nov 06 2018, 12:04 am

oliveoil wrote:

good quality olive oil is definitely not bitter! It's rich and wonderful and a small drizzle goes a long way.

[none of this has anything to do with why I chose my name]

Ok. Thanks for clarifying. Smile