The point of this thread is that OP shouldn't feel like she is alone.
Unfortunately my dh never helped and isnt doing anything now.
The only thing dh does now is go to the weekly free food pickup. I couldn't waste 2 hours on line. I told dh I'm not going back anymore.
We are both working from home. All kids have school. Dh is so clueless, he will walk out of his room for a break and loudly announce "who wants to play now". Kids will yell, one will cry that her "teacher muted her"...
Dh takes a long lunch daily. He goes on a walk. I don't typically take a lunch break. My breaks are to feed the kids lunch, set them up for next class or prep dinner.
stepping up or stepping down hard on my toes?
Who is interested in him throwing in a load if he controls my every move when he is home? or only criticizes when he gets home, now that he works out of the home?
Instead of appreciating ,all I am doing, with all kids home all day....