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Chasuna Invitation question, dinner invite?



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amother
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Post Tue, Apr 16 2024, 8:11 am
Please just comment if you are certain re the proper etiquette here, tyia:

When a chasuna invitation has an rsvp card included, which just states an option to check if one is attending, & the invitation notes reception & chupah time, but no mention of dancing/simchas chasan/kallah (or more relevant to question) the dinner, does this mean one is being invited just for the chupah & dancing?

Or does just the fact that there's an rsvp card, mean invited for everything?

And finally, if one is only planning to come for chupah & dancing should they specify in rsvp card?
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amother
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Post Tue, Apr 16 2024, 8:14 am
I would write that I’m coming only for dessert so they don’t give me a plate. You’re describing a normal yeshivish invitation which includes an invite to everything.
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amother
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Post Tue, Apr 16 2024, 8:33 am
I really think it depends on the crowd. I’ve only ever seen ‘simchas chassan v kallah’ for chassidish weddings. All others wedding I’ve seen if you’re coming it means you’re coming for all of it
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Chayalle




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Apr 16 2024, 8:47 am
In yeshivish circles, RSVP means for the dinner. There's no limit on people you can have for chuppah and dancing.
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amother
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Post Tue, Apr 16 2024, 8:51 am
amother Rose wrote:
I really think it depends on the crowd. I’ve only ever seen ‘simchas chassan v kallah’ for chassidish weddings. All others wedding I’ve seen if you’re coming it means you’re coming for all of it

People don't usually RSVP for simchas chosson v'kallah at any wedding.
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Ruchel




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Apr 17 2024, 9:15 am
So I'm standing during dinner? No gracias
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