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amother
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Mon, Jun 21 2010, 10:47 pm
you felt at home in your new town?
I am moving during the summer to a new place. dont know my way around, dont know where to shop, dont have any friends in the new neighborhood...and I am really nervous. I am more of a shy type.
how long did it take for you to feel comfortable and settled?
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brbs
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Mon, Jun 21 2010, 11:32 pm
I have moved almost 5 summers of my 9 year marriage. It takes time. The most important thing is to reach out to people. Go to shul, catch a shuir etc. Meeting one or two people that will introduce you to more is a good idea.
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hila
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Tue, Jun 22 2010, 1:07 am
And join the local email lists.. shul list, and other. Ask questions and people will (hopefully) welcome you.
Try and get teh kids into a local summercamp/day camp and you will meet other parents.
And go to shul. And dh should too. Hopefully it is a warm welcoming community
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yo'ma
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Tue, Jun 22 2010, 9:34 am
It took me about a year to feel comfortable, my way around, know some people, etc.., but it still doesn't feel like home .
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Peanut2
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Thu, Jun 24 2010, 9:15 pm
For me it depends a lot on where I moved to and how I feel there.
I've moved a lot in my life, and in some places I felt like I belong almost immediately, in some it took years or never happened.
If you are moving within the same country it helps. Moving from the US to the UK was super difficult for me.
If you have some sort of connection to the new place it helps - like friends or a particular shul or community you know you are going to join. If you are familiar with the place, even if only as a tourist, it helps a lot, too. Even if you don't really know people, you can probably find some person who knows someone you know and ask questions. Or ask here on imamother.
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