Uh was I a flirt??? HELP WDYT?

amother

Tue, Oct 04 2011, 6:32 am

I made a meal for someone who just had a baby. I threw in soda because it was a fleishig meal and I know my husband likes soda with his fleishig meal, so I told her that I gave her soda because I know my husband likes soda so maybe her husband (or her--I hope I said and her) like soda also...
I was trying to come across as trying to please everyone but if I gave her soda because I was thinking about husbands....well maybe I am a flirt and offended her. and this is right before YK.
HELP

buzzinmom

Tue, Oct 04 2011, 6:52 am

I think u were just being thoughtful of ppl who just had a baby, and you were trying to do a nice job making them supper. dont think into it to much.

auntie_em

Tue, Oct 04 2011, 8:25 am

Unless you ended the sentence with something like..."Tell your DH there is more where that came from!"
or showed up to deliver said soda wearing nothing but a smile..relax. Wink

It was a very thoughtful gesture, and I'm sure they appreciated it as just that.

DrMom

Tue, Oct 04 2011, 8:28 am

Relax. If that was flirting, I think you are the
least effective flirter in the history of flirting.

I do not know anyone who could interpret that as being inappropriate, unless there was some prior history you are not sharing with us.

MamaBear

Tue, Oct 04 2011, 8:34 am

I have litle more to add other than a chuckle, but you can't hear it.

zaq

Tue, Oct 04 2011, 9:13 am

auntie_em wrote:

Unless you.................................showed up to deliver said soda wearing nothing but a smile..relax. Wink

Tue, Oct 04 2011, 9:54 am

wow the innocence of this post was refreshing.

I will echo that this is by far the furthest thing from effective flirting.

Now I challenge you to stand in front a mirror and practice actual flirting because you have a lifetime ahead of you flirting with your husband and you need practice Twisted Evil

Depressed

Tue, Oct 04 2011, 10:46 am

Either there was a lot more to the story you arent telling us or you come from a different planet then the rest of us do.

Flirting is sitting on the guy's lap , and saying I live Coke, how about you ? LOL

Hatemywig

Tue, Oct 04 2011, 11:28 am

Sweetheart, you're either the most naive women I've met or you're looking for a laugh, either way, don't worry yourself about it, you're in a good place:)