Nicely leaving a babysitter...

MGmom

Mon, Jul 16 2012, 1:15 pm

So I was offered to go back to work when my baby was about 7 months old for a very good deal, I am a very picky person when it comes to babysitters and people interacting with my kids... I finally found the perfect deal; close to work, great price, in her home, cozy atmosphere, great recommendations etc. I called up the woman and to my dismay she had no openings for another child, My kid was very well behaved and on formula and really not the tough kind... after trying her back a few times she accepted her for a minimum amount of hours. Fast forward a year... I was very happy there but my kid is almost 2 now and is very bored there. She accepted a few more kids which makes things kinda hectic... I know she's going thru financial stress and I feel she is not giving it all... I want to switch her to a kiddie group that is designed for this age and more stimulating for her. But I feel that she is so connected to my kid and she really did me a favor and accepted my child back then that she'll be very offended... How can I nicely say thank you and good bye???? Confused

suzyq

Mon, Jul 16 2012, 1:19 pm

I think you just have to place most of the blame on your child being 2 years old and you wanting her to interact with kids who are her age. That way it's not reflective of your babysitter (even if your decision really is). You have to do what it right for your child, whether this babysitter did you a favor in accepting her or not. My guess is, if she's really that good, she'll fill the spot quickly.

Hashemlovesme

Mon, Jul 16 2012, 1:45 pm

suzyq wrote:

this. plus a nice thank you card & a (little) gift, maybe even w/ a pic of your child