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amother
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 Thu, Dec 12 2013, 2:57 pm
What was wrong with it and why was it removed?
What's wrong with mothers getting comfort from other mothers in the same situation?
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Emotional
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Thu, Dec 12 2013, 3:03 pm
| amother wrote: | What was wrong with it and why was it removed?
What's wrong with mothers getting comfort from other mothers in the same situation? |
I think there was too much lashon hara and motzei Shem ra going on - and I'm guilty too.
This teaches me that frustration and bitterness are not an excuse to say whatever I want, especially in a public forum.
I'm sorry, everyone.
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lkwdmommy
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Thu, Dec 12 2013, 3:10 pm
Emotional-I followed the posts and you have earned my respect by keeping your head up high while in such pain from your situation. Be proud of yourself! I hope your problem gets resolved without too much additional agmas nefesh on your part. If I'd be able to help you, I would.
I imagine the thread was removed because the mod found it too difficult to comb through for the nasty lashon harah posts.
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lkwdmommy
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Thu, Dec 12 2013, 3:12 pm
| amother wrote: | What was wrong with it and why was it removed?
What's wrong with mothers getting comfort from other mothers in the same situation? |
Mothers getting comfort and validation from other mothers is a great thing! That's what Imamother was made for. When threads degenerate into outright Lashon Harah and nastiness, that is a problem.
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Chayalle
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Thu, Dec 12 2013, 4:14 pm
Right, I thought it was ok to vent and be validated, but once names were brought in negatively by anonymous and not-anonymous posters, the situation spiralled downwards.
Emotional, I wish you all the best and hope that you are one of the ones where everything works out for the best at least in the end.
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amother
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Thu, Dec 12 2013, 5:21 pm
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As the writer who poured out her soul on that forum it is really a shame that people had to go and mention specific names, which is pure lashon harah. I was not pointing my finger at any specific person, I think this is a community problem, that needs a community solution. It is not the fault of any individual person and everything you hear about specific people needs to be taken with a grain of salt. Its a shame bc I was really using this forum as major venting grounds and it was helping me get everything off my chest.
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merelyme
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Thu, Dec 12 2013, 5:56 pm
| lkwdmommy wrote: | | I imagine the thread was removed because the mod found it too difficult to comb through for the nasty lashon harah posts. |
Exactly.
I just finished reading through the entire thread and was going to post in "threads removed" that I cannot edit/remove so many problematic posts, so the entire thread is staying gone.
If anyone wants to start a new thread with a specific question, feel free - but keep it kosher, please.
Thanks!
-merelyme, as mod
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