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amother


 

Post Sun, Mar 02 2014, 6:44 pm
There's is someone in my family, who I can't avoid, a woman, who always compliments how nice I look. Then stays staring the next couple of minutes on me. She says how much weight I've lost and she is really not into dieting and I didn't lose any weight but sometimes comments when I'm showing small pregnancy bump. She definitely doesn't mean to say that I'm actually skinny or looking good now. It gives me the feeling that or she's somehow jealous on me, don't know why or simply something more. When we meet she stares on my direction untill I turn to her. Is there any way I can stop this?
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itssimplyme




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 02 2014, 6:53 pm
That is weird just like ignore her pretend to be really busy. Don't look in her direction. She will get bored trying to get your attention.
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amother


 

Post Sun, Mar 02 2014, 7:00 pm
She doesn't get bored. That's going on for the last few years.
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amother


 

Post Sun, Mar 02 2014, 7:05 pm
does she do this to anyone else or just to you?
you mentioned she comments when you are pregnant. Is she dealing with IF?
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flowerpower




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 02 2014, 7:12 pm
That sounds very odd. Is she fat and dresses bad? Is she the very jealous type?
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amother


 

Post Sun, Mar 02 2014, 7:13 pm
amother wrote:
does she do this to anyone else or just to you?
you mentioned she comments when you are pregnant. Is she dealing with IF?

She's doing it only to me as far as I know and she's not dealing with any IF issues.
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amother


 

Post Sun, Mar 02 2014, 7:16 pm
flowerpower wrote:
That sounds very odd. Is she fat and dresses bad? Is she the very jealous type?
not fat and not especially a jealous type. She is doing only to me. I feel she means more than that
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flowerpower




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 02 2014, 7:18 pm
Next time you meet her look at her right away. This way she can't stare at you up and down a whole time.
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amother


 

Post Sun, Mar 02 2014, 7:46 pm
has she been jealous of you as long as you knew her is this something more recent?
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ra_mom




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 02 2014, 7:51 pm
flowerpower wrote:
Next time you meet her look at her right away. This way she can't stare at you up and down a whole time.
This.
Look at her first. Stare. Keep your gaze deep into her eyes. Make her squirm.
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seeker




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Mar 02 2014, 8:33 pm
So, some people have no social skills. Not your problem. Move on.
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