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amother
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Post Tue, Jun 19 2018, 6:16 pm
amother wrote:



I know I am not alone in my experience here, and maybe all the senseless, catty, unnecessary bashing and rude little jabs and comments should just be taken with a grain of salt, realizing that they come solely from unhappy, dysfunctional people looking for a fight, for whatever reason. This forum is the ultimate platform for the passive-aggressively-disposed. You have to prove how much halacha you know just to get approved, and for what? To ask a question, to seek support, only to find some nasty little trolls with their dirty teeth sunk into your heels? I, for one, am done here. I am sure that HaShm does not approve of the loshon hara and sinas chinam that sprouts up everywhere you look here.

I could not agree more. Maybe Yael opens a forum within called Bein Adam lechavero where we people dont do that!!!!!
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Post Tue, Jun 19 2018, 7:52 pm
DVOM wrote:
I think this world's a mirror, OP. It reflects back at you what you present it with. Be mean and nasty, and you'll get mean and nasty back.

Don't leave. Try being consistently kind, thoughtful, considerate and polite. You might be pleasantly surprised by what you get in return.

DVOM you said it so well!!! This a hundred times over.

I often wonder how people have such different experiences with essentially the same thing...well this is my answer.
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MrsDash




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Jun 19 2018, 8:34 pm
I’m sorry you felt hurt by the members here, but try to keep in mind, *expression* does not translate well in written conversations.
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Post Tue, Jun 19 2018, 9:14 pm
relish wrote:
Wow! I am shocked that you took this as { shock }
It seems like you are being sarcastic in your post. I wonder why.

I was sincere, and chose my words carefully. I gave you a bit of advise if you wanted it, and then bade you farewell. I like sensitive people.

I'm highly sensitive, and I think that it's one of my biggest assets. I wonder which part you felt was offensive.


I thought your post was very sweet, and I took the OP's response as, she was very touched by it; speechless and moved to tears!

But I see how your read could make sense, too.

So easy for meaning to get lost...
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