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amother
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 Tue, Sep 25 2007, 12:42 pm
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Sorry if this sounds ignorant, but this is something I have been wondering about. Is he obligated to sleep in the succah even if it means I will be real lonely?
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small bean
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Tue, Sep 25 2007, 12:51 pm
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It is not obligated but its a nice thing to do.
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Raisin
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Tue, Sep 25 2007, 2:16 pm
why can't you both sleep in the sukka?
It is not our minhag and even if it was, arctic weather conditions would make it impossible, (winter suddenly began 2 days ago, just in time for sukkos!) but I wouldn't mind sleeping in the sukka with dh if it was normal weather.
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amother
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Tue, Sep 25 2007, 2:24 pm
| Quote: | | why can't you both sleep in the sukka? |
If we had our own sukka I would love to! We'll be going away though, so this isn't an option.
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shalhevet
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Tue, Sep 25 2007, 3:05 pm
| amother wrote: | | Sorry if this sounds ignorant, but this is something I have been wondering about. Is he obligated to sleep in the succah even if it means I will be real lonely? |
Go and check out a Shulchan Aruch. It says if he is mitztaer... not his wife... 
I also don't know where you live, and what the climate's like.
The answer is, ask your rav of course. But remember it's a Torah mitzva, and you can comfort yourself that you're having real mesirus nefesh for the mitzva.
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Motek
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Wed, Sep 26 2007, 9:03 am
| shalhevet wrote: | It says if he is mitztaer... not his wife...
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In other words, does he care that he's sleeping without you?
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stem
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Wed, Sep 26 2007, 9:10 am
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Maybe it causes the man tza'ar to know that his wife is terribly lonely without him?
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small bean
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Wed, Sep 26 2007, 9:20 am
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my dh wants to sleep in the succah with me and we are going to my parents- so we put up another succah by them for us to sleep in. (they sell pop up succahs for travel they cost about 175
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Sue DaNym
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Wed, Sep 26 2007, 10:09 am
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I know that the shulchan aruch says its a mitzvah but I also know that there are groups that dont do it for chassidic reasons. I guess op it depends on who you are.
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miriamnechama
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Sat, Sep 29 2007, 3:05 pm
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dh will start in the succah then come to me and later go back to the succah.
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