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amother
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Post Thu, Mar 09 2023, 6:23 pm
if you had guests over for shabbos once whose kids recked your entire house, left the linen stained, and basically did every possibly annoying thing and now wants to come again...

(left out details purposely in case she's on...)
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amother
Dill


 

Post Thu, Mar 09 2023, 6:25 pm
"so sorry, it won't work for us, but if you're in the neighborhood we'd love to have you for a meal"
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amother
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Post Thu, Mar 09 2023, 6:27 pm
amother Dill wrote:
"so sorry, it won't work for us, but if you're in the neighborhood we'd love to have you for a meal"

problem is theyre out of state so its clear that I know they wont be in the neighborhood...
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brightness




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Mar 09 2023, 6:43 pm
Would just say sorry this week doesn't work out. Saying that every time would assume they will get the message
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amother
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Post Thu, Mar 09 2023, 6:45 pm
brightness wrote:
Would just say sorry this week doesn't work out. Saying that every time would assume they will get the message

thanks
I guess thats the only way

I was kind of hoping that there is a way to do it without them getting the message that they are unwanted
I guess that was just wishful thinking on my part...
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amother
Cognac


 

Post Thu, Mar 09 2023, 6:46 pm
I’m not really up for hosting sleepover guests right now. Will let you know if/when that changes.
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amother
Mocha


 

Post Thu, Mar 09 2023, 6:46 pm
We love having you, but maybe when the kids are older…
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TravelHearter




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Mar 09 2023, 6:49 pm
“Doesn’t make too much sense right now, but let me know if you’re in the area I’m so excited to have you for a meal and we can schmooze!!!”
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brightness




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Mar 09 2023, 6:55 pm
amother Mocha wrote:
We love having you, but maybe when the kids are older…


Lol like that!
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amother
Lightcoral


 

Post Thu, Mar 09 2023, 10:44 pm
brightness wrote:
Would just say sorry this week doesn't work out. Saying that every time would assume they will get the message

This
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